Yog vim li cas cov me nyuam niaj hnub tsis nyiam kawm, tsis paub yuav ua li cas nyiaj tau thiab tsis tshua dhuav

2024 Tus sau: Seth Attwood | [email protected]. Kawg hloov kho: 2023-12-16 16:06

Ib tsab xov xwm zoo heev txog kev ua niam ua txiv thiab kov yeej kev sib tw loj ntawm niam txiv / kev kawm. Ob qhov teeb meem tseem ceeb thiab txoj hauv kev los daws lawv tau sau tseg, uas yog qhov tseem ceeb dua. Thiab kuv pom zoo tag nrho nrog tus sau.

Kuv yog tus kws kho mob ua haujlwm nrog ntau xyoo ntawm kev ua haujlwm nrog menyuam yaus, niam txiv thiab kws qhia ntawv. Kuv ntseeg hais tias peb cov me nyuam mob zuj zus tuaj ntau yam.

Kuv hnov tib yam los ntawm txhua tus kws qhia ntawv uas kuv ntsib. Raws li ib tug kws kho mob, kuv pom kev poob qis hauv kev sib raug zoo, kev xav thiab kev kawm hauv cov menyuam yaus niaj hnub no, thiab tib lub sijhawm, cov menyuam yaus muaj kev tsis taus kawm ntawv thiab lwm yam kev tsis taus.

Raws li peb paub, peb lub hlwb yog malleable. Ua tsaug rau ib puag ncig, peb tuaj yeem ua rau peb lub hlwb "muaj zog" lossis "tsis muaj zog". Kuv ntseeg tiag tiag tias txawm peb lub hom phiaj zoo tshaj plaws los, peb tu siab heev los txhim kho peb cov menyuam lub hlwb mus rau qhov tsis ncaj ncees lawm.

Thiab yog vim li cas:

1. Cov me nyuam tau txhua yam lawv xav tau, thaum lawv xav tau

"Kuv tshaib plab!" "Nyob rau hauv ib pliag, kuv mam li yuav khoom noj." "Kuv nqhis dej". "Ntawm no yog lub tshuab haus dej." "Kuv dhuav!" - "Tau kuv lub xov tooj."

Lub peev xwm ncua sij hawm ua tau raws li koj cov kev xav tau yog ib qho tseem ceeb rau kev vam meej yav tom ntej. Peb xav ua kom peb cov me nyuam zoo siab, tab sis hmoov tsis peb tsuas yog ua kom lawv zoo siab nyob rau lub sijhawm tam sim no thiab tsis zoo siab rau lub sijhawm ntev.

Lub peev xwm los ncua kev txaus siab ntawm koj cov kev xav tau txhais tau tias muaj peev xwm ua haujlwm hauv kev ntxhov siab.

Peb cov me nyuam maj mam npaj tsawg los daws cov teeb meem kev ntxhov siab me me, uas thaum kawg dhau los ua ib qho kev cuam tshuam loj rau lawv txoj kev vam meej hauv lub neej.

Peb feem ntau pom cov menyuam tsis muaj peev xwm ncua kev txaus siab hauv chav kawm, khw, khw noj mov, thiab khw muag khoom ua si thaum menyuam yaus hnov "Tsis yog" vim nws niam nws txiv tau qhia nws lub hlwb kom tau txais txhua yam uas nws xav tau.

2. txwv kev sib raug zoo

Peb muaj ntau yam ua, yog li peb muab peb cov me nyuam gadgets kom lawv tsis khoom thiab. Yav dhau los, cov menyuam yaus ua si sab nraum zoov, qhov chaw lawv tsim lawv cov kev txawj ntse hauv kev sib raug zoo. Hmoov tsis zoo, gadgets tau hloov kev taug kev sab nraum zoov rau menyuam yaus. Tsis tas li ntawd, thev naus laus zis tau ua rau cov niam txiv tsis tshua muaj kev cuam tshuam nrog lawv cov menyuam.

Ib tug xov tooj uas "s zaum" nrog ib tug me nyuam es tsis txhob ntawm peb yuav tsis qhia nws yuav ua li cas sib txuas lus. Cov neeg muaj kev vam meej feem ntau tau tsim kev sib raug zoo. Qhov no yog qhov tseem ceeb!

Lub hlwb zoo li cov leeg uas kawm thiab cob qhia. Yog koj xav kom koj tus menyuam caij tsheb kauj vab, koj qhia nws caij. Yog tias koj xav kom koj tus menyuam tuaj yeem tos, koj yuav tsum qhia nws ua siab ntev. Yog tias koj xav kom koj tus menyuam muaj peev xwm sib txuas lus, koj yuav tsum tau sib tham nrog nws. Tib yam siv rau txhua yam kev txawj ntse. Tsis muaj qhov sib txawv!

3. Kev lom zem tsis kawg

Peb tau tsim lub ntiaj teb dag rau peb cov menyuam. Tsis muaj kev ntxhov siab hauv nws. Thaum tus me nyuam tsaug zog lawm, peb khiav mus ua kev lom zem rau nws dua, vim lwm yam zoo li peb tsis ua peb lub luag haujlwm ntawm niam txiv.

Peb nyob hauv ob lub ntiaj teb sib txawv: lawv nyob hauv lawv tus kheej "lub ntiaj teb kev lom zem", thiab peb nyob hauv lwm qhov, "lub ntiaj teb kev ua haujlwm".

Vim li cas cov me nyuam tsis pab peb hauv chav ua noj lossis ntxhua khaub ncaws? Vim li cas ho tsis muab lawv cov khoom ua si tso tseg?

Nws yog qhov yooj yim, rov ua haujlwm uas qhia lub hlwb kom ua haujlwm thaum ua haujlwm tho txawv. Qhov no yog tib "cov leeg" uas yuav tsum tau ua rau kev kawm ntawv.

Thaum cov menyuam tuaj kawm ntawv thiab nws txog sijhawm sau ntawv, lawv teb tias: "Kuv ua tsis tau, qhov no nyuaj dhau, dhuav dhau." Vim li cas? Vim tias qhov ua haujlwm tau "cov leeg" tsis qhia nrog kev lom zem kawg. Nws tsuas yog tsheb ciav hlau thaum ua haujlwm.

4. Technology

Gadgets tau dhau los ua tus nannies pub dawb rau peb cov menyuam, tab sis qhov kev pab no yuav tsum tau them rau. Peb them nrog lub paj hlwb ntawm peb cov me nyuam, lawv cov xim thiab lub peev xwm los ncua kev txaus siab ntawm lawv lub siab nyiam.

Lub neej txhua hnub yog dhuav piv rau kev muaj tiag virtual.

Thaum cov menyuam yaus tuaj rau hauv chav kawm, lawv tau ntsib nrog tib neeg lub suab thiab tsim kom pom kev zoo, tsis zoo li cov duab tawg thiab cov teebmeem tshwj xeeb uas lawv tau siv los pom ntawm cov ntxaij vab tshaus.

Tom qab cov sij hawm ntawm kev muaj tiag virtual, cov menyuam yaus pom tias nws nyuaj zuj zus los ua cov ntaub ntawv hauv chav kawm vim lawv tau siv rau qib siab ntawm kev txhawb nqa uas cov yeeb yaj kiab muab. Cov menyuam yaus tsis tuaj yeem ua cov ntaub ntawv nrog rau qib qis ntawm kev txhawb nqa, thiab qhov no cuam tshuam tsis zoo rau lawv lub peev xwm los daws teeb meem kev kawm.

Technology kuj tseem cuam tshuam rau peb txoj kev xav ntawm peb cov menyuam thiab peb tsev neeg. Kev xav muaj ntawm niam txiv yog ib qho khoom noj tseem ceeb rau tus menyuam lub hlwb. Hmoov tsis zoo, peb maj mam depriving peb cov me nyuam ntawm qhov no.

5. Cov me nyuam kav lub ntiaj teb no

"Kuv tus tub tsis nyiam zaub." "Nws tsis nyiam mus pw ntxov." "Nws tsis nyiam noj tshais." "Nws tsis nyiam cov khoom ua si, tab sis nws zoo nrog lub ntsiav tshuaj." "Nws tsis xav hnav nws tus kheej." "Nws tub nkees heev noj nws tus kheej."

Nov yog qhov kuv hnov los ntawm kuv niam kuv txiv txhua lub sijhawm. Txij li thaum twg cov me nyuam hais rau peb yuav ua li cas qhia lawv? Yog tias koj tso nws rau lawv, txhua yam lawv yuav ua yog noj mac thiab cheese thiab ncuav, saib TV, ua si ntawm ntsiav tshuaj, thiab tsis txhob mus pw.

Peb yuav pab peb cov menyuam li cas yog tias peb muab qhov lawv xav tau thiab tsis zoo rau lawv? Yog tias tsis muaj zaub mov zoo thiab pw tsaug zog txaus thaum hmo ntuj, peb cov menyuam tuaj kawm ntawv ntxhov siab, ntxhov siab thiab tsis nco qab. Tsis tas li ntawd, peb xa lawv cov lus tsis raug.

Lawv kawm tias lawv tuaj yeem ua txhua yam lawv xav tau thiab tsis ua yam lawv tsis xav ua. Lawv tsis muaj tswv yim - "yuav tsum ua."

Hmoov tsis zoo, txhawm rau ua tiav peb lub hom phiaj hauv lub neej, peb feem ntau yuav tsum ua qhov tsim nyog, tsis yog qhov peb xav tau.

Yog tus menyuam xav los ua tub kawm, nws yuav tsum kawm. Yog tias nws xav ua tus ncaws pob, nws yuav tsum tau cob qhia txhua hnub.

Peb cov menyuam paub qhov lawv xav tau, tab sis nws nyuaj rau lawv ua qhov tsim nyog kom ua tiav lub hom phiaj no. Qhov no ua rau lub hom phiaj ua tsis tau tiav thiab ua rau cov menyuam ntxhov siab.

Qhia lawv lub hlwb

Koj tuaj yeem cob qhia koj tus menyuam lub hlwb thiab hloov lawv lub neej kom lawv muaj kev vam meej hauv kev sib raug zoo, kev xav thiab kev kawm.

Nov yog li cas:

1. Tsis txhob ntshai teeb tsa

Cov menyuam yaus xav kom lawv loj hlob kom muaj kev zoo siab thiab noj qab nyob zoo.

- Teem sijhawm noj mov, sijhawm pw tsaug zog, thiab khoom siv.

- Xav txog qhov zoo rau menyuam yaus, tsis yog qhov lawv xav tau lossis tsis xav tau. Lawv yuav ua tsaug rau koj tom qab ntawd.

- Kev ua niam ua txiv yog kev ua haujlwm nyuaj. Koj yuav tsum muaj tswv yim kom lawv ua qhov zoo rau lawv, txawm hais tias feem ntau nws yuav yog qhov txawv ntawm qhov lawv xav tau.

- Cov me nyuam xav tau pluas tshais thiab zaub mov zoo. Lawv yuav tsum tau taug kev sab nraud thiab mus pw raws sij hawm kom lawv tuaj yeem tuaj kawm ntawv hnub tom qab npaj kawm.

- Tig qhov lawv tsis nyiam ua rau kev lom zem, kev xav ua si.

2. txwv tsis pub nkag mus rau gadgets thiab rov qab muaj kev sib raug zoo nrog me nyuam

- Muab paj rau lawv, luag nyav, tickle, sau ib daim ntawv rau hauv lub hnab ev ntawv lossis hauv ncoo, ua rau lawv xav tsis thoob los ntawm kev rub lawv tawm ntawm tsev kawm ntawv noj su, seev cev ua ke, sib tw ua ke, ntaus hauv ncoo.

- Muaj tsev neeg noj hmo, ua si board games, mus caij tsheb kauj vab ua ke, thiab taug kev nrog lub teeb nyem thaum yav tsaus ntuj.

3. Qhia kom lawv tos

- Yuav tsum dhuav yog ib txwm, qhov no yog thawj kauj ruam rau kev muaj tswv yim.

- Maj mam nce lub sijhawm tos ntawm "Kuv xav tau" thiab "Kuv tau txais."

- Tsis txhob siv cov khoom siv hauv lub tsheb thiab cov khw noj mov, thiab qhia cov menyuam yaus tos thaum tham lossis ua si.

- Txwv cov khoom noj txom ncauj tas li.

4. Qhia koj tus menyuam kom ua hauj lwm monotonous txij thaum yau vim qhov no yog lub hauv paus rau kev ua tau zoo yav tom ntej

- Folding khaub ncaws, muab cov khoom ua si, dai khaub ncaws, unpacking khoom noj, ua lub txaj.

- Ua kom muaj tswv yim. Ua cov luag haujlwm no lom zem kom koj lub hlwb koom nrog lawv nrog qee yam zoo.

5. Qhia lawv cov txuj ci kev sib raug zoo

Kawm qhia, muaj peev xwm poob thiab yeej, qhuas lwm tus, hais "ua tsaug" thiab "thov."

Raws li kuv qhov kev paub dhau los ua tus kws kho mob, kuv tuaj yeem hais tias cov menyuam hloov pauv thaum cov niam txiv hloov lawv txoj hauv kev rau kev ua niam txiv. Pab koj cov menyuam ua tiav hauv lub neej los ntawm kev qhia thiab siv lawv lub hlwb ua ntej nws lig dhau lawm.