"Fairy-tale" theem ntawm kev kawm: vim li cas sau koj tus kheej zaj dab neeg?

2024 Tus sau: Seth Attwood | [email protected]. Kawg hloov kho: 2023-12-16 16:06

Qee lub sij hawm peb daws tsis tau qhov teeb meem, txawm li cas los xij peb sim ua kom muaj laj thawj. Thaum lub hlwb sab laug tsis muaj zog, txoj cai muaj tswv yim los cawm. Ib txoj hauv kev zoo tshaj los ua haujlwm nrog nws yog kev kho dab neeg. Txoj kev no yog dab tsi thiab yuav pab daws qhov teeb meem zoo li cas tsis tuaj yeem daws tau, hais tias tus kws kho mob hlwb Elena Mkrtychan.

Thaum xub thawj, nws yog lub hauv paus ntawm cov ntaub ntawv, nws ua rau nws muaj peev xwm xa cov kev paub txog lub neej, khaws keeb kwm. Tom qab ntawd nws tau los ua ib qho cuab yeej uas pab cov me nyuam muaj kev sib haum xeeb, ob qho tib si lub hlwb thiab kev xav. Hauv cov dab neeg, koj tuaj yeem pom qhov kev piav qhia ntawm cov cai ntawm lub cev, thiab cov qauv ntawm tib neeg cov cim, thiab txhua yam kev tsis sib haum xeeb thiab tsev neeg, thiab hom kev coj cwj pwm hauv lawv.

Yog hais tias ib tug me nyuam hla qhov "fairytale" theem ntawm kev kawm, nws tsis tsim nws tus kheej lub neej algorithm, thiab cov neeg laus tus cwj pwm, feem ntau subjective, pib cuam tshuam nws tus cwj pwm ntawm lub neej.

Cov menyuam yaus uas tsis tau nyeem cov dab neeg yog nyob rau hauv pawg "kev pheej hmoo". Loj hlob tuaj, lawv sim daws txhua qhov teeb meem muaj txiaj ntsig, muaj txiaj ntsig, siv cov qauv txav thiab cov tswv yim thiab tsis quav ntsej txog qhov muaj peev xwm ntawm lub hlwb, muaj peev xwm ua tau zoo, nrog kev tshoov siab, ntawm lub siab nyiam. Lawv tsis nyob, tab sis txhua lub sij hawm lawv heroically kov yeej ib yam dab tsi.

Sab laug hemisphere nrhiav kev piav qhia rau txhua yam thiab tsis paub txog txuj ci tseem ceeb. Thiab txoj cai lees paub - thiab nyiam lawv

Lawv tsis pub dawb rein rau txoj kev xav, thiab tom qab tag nrho, txhua yam uas tuaj yeem xav thiab xav txog tuaj yeem ua tiav. Thiab tsis yog nyob rau hauv lub tswv yim, tab sis nyob rau hauv kev muaj tiag. Sab laug hemisphere nrhiav kev piav qhia rau txhua yam thiab tsis paub txog txuj ci tseem ceeb. Thiab txoj cai hemisphere paub. Thiab, ntxiv rau, nws paub yuav ua li cas coj lawv thiab txawm ua rau thiab nyiam.

Txoj cai hemisphere ua haujlwm nrog cov xwm txheej tsis txaus ntseeg, ntau heev kom sab laug tsis muaj sijhawm los taug qab thiab kho nws. "Koj ua li cas?" - qhov tsim nyog sab laug hemisphere yog perplexed. "Los ntawm qee qhov txuj ci tseem ceeb!" - teb qhov yog, txawm hais tias qhov no piav tsis muaj dab tsi. Nws yog tag nrho cov qab ntxiag mus rau lub ntsej muag "mirculous" cov txiaj ntsig ntawm txoj cai hemispheric ua haujlwm, piav qhia los ntawm qhov pom ntawm neurophysiology thiab psychology.

Vim li cas thiaj sau koj tus kheej zaj dab neeg

Thaum peb tuaj nrog ib tug fairy taleas raws li tag nrho cov kev cai, nrog kev pab los ntawm cov dluab paub los ntawm thaum yau, peb tso ib tug algorithm rau peb tus kheej code kev xav, uas siv peb lub zog, tag nrho cov muaj peev xwm ntawm lub hlwb thiab kev xav.

Qhov kev xav no yog muab rau peb txij thaum yug los, nws yog dawb los ntawm cov stereotypes imposed los ntawm upbringing, "neeg laus" logic, niam txiv tus cwj pwm, kev lig kev cai. Los ntawm kev tshaj tawm thiab siv cov algorithm yav tom ntej, peb kawm kom tau tawm ntawm lub neej txoj sia.

Nco ntsoov: kom paub tseeb tias koj lossis koj cov phooj ywg puas tau poob rau hauv lub voj voog vicious. Txawm tias tag nrho cov kev siv zog, cov kev ua tsis tiav tsis tau xaus rau hauv ib txoj kev, txhua yam rov qab ua dua …

Ib qho piv txwv classic yog thaum "ob qho tib si ntse thiab zoo nkauj" nyob ib leeg. Los yog, piv txwv li, tag nrho cov kev xav tau ua ntej, thiab kev txawj ntse, kev kawm, thiab kev txawj ntse, tab sis nws tsis tuaj yeem nrhiav txoj haujlwm tsim nyog. Thiab ib tug neeg tshwm sim nyob rau hauv qhov chaw ntawm lub sij hawm, ntsib ib tug phooj ywg nyob rau hauv txoj kev hauv tsev - thiab kev pab los ntawm ib tug npaj txhij txog kev taw qhia thiab tsis muaj kev siv zog ntau. Vim li cas?

Qhov no yuav txhais tau tias peb nyiam ua kom nyuaj, cia cov cim tsis tsim nyog rau hauv peb lub neej, ua haujlwm tsis tsim nyog.

Cov uas tsis muaj hmoo tau yws tias: “Kuv ua txhua yam zoo! Kuv muab tag nrho rau qhov siab tshaj plaws! " Tab sis tsuas yog qhov tsim nyog "khawm" nyob rau hauv lub hlwb tsis qhib thiab, txawm tias ua "txhua yam yog", peb tau ploj lawm ib yam dab tsi, undershooting thiab vim li ntawd peb tsis tau txais qhov peb xav tau.

Yog hais tias qhov teeb meem tsis daws tau nyob rau theem ntawm logic, nws yog lub sij hawm mus txuas rau txoj cai hemisphere. Cov dab neeg uas peb tau sau qhia qhia cov lej, cov nyees khawm thiab cov levers uas lub hlwb siv los kov yeej cov teeb meem, daws teeb meem, thiab tsim kev sib raug zoo. Peb pib pom ntau lub cib fim, nres lawv ploj, tawg tawm ntawm lub voj voog uas phem heev. Qhov algorithm no pib ua haujlwm ntawm qhov tsis nco qab.

Peb zoo li hu tus lej - thiab kev nyab xeeb qhib. Tab sis rau qhov no, cov cai yuav tsum tau xaiv kom raug, cov dab neeg yog sau sib haum xeeb, logically, tsis muaj distortion.

Qhov no yog qhov nyuaj ua, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog thawj zaug. Txhua lub sijhawm tam sim no thiab tom qab ntawd peb tau poob rau hauv stereotypes, poob xov ntawm cov lus piav qhia, tuaj nrog cov cim me uas tsis ua lub luag haujlwm tshwj xeeb. Peb kuj lossi tig rau logic, sim rationalize dab tsi yuav tsum nyob twj ywm tej yam yees siv.

Qhov no yuav txhais tau hais tias hauv lub neej tiag tiag, ib yam nkaus, peb nyiam xav txog ntau dhau, ua rau txhua yam nyuaj, cia cov cim tsis tsim nyog rau hauv peb lub neej, thiab ua haujlwm tsis tsim nyog.

Tab sis thaum lub fairy taleas qhia tag nrho cov no, nws yog twb tau mus ua hauj lwm nrog nws.

Sau zaj dab neeg: kev qhia rau cov laus

1. Tuaj nrog ib tug zoo heev zajlus, twists thiab lem ntawm uas yuav meej rau ib tug me nyuam muaj 5-6 xyoo.

Qhov no yog lub hnub nyoog thaum kev xav paub daws teeb meem tseem tsis tau tsim, tus menyuam pom cov ntaub ntawv hais txog lub ntiaj teb los ntawm cov duab pom. Thiab lawv yog cov sawv cev zoo tshaj plaws nyob rau hauv cov dab neeg, ua tsaug uas ib hom "bank" ntawm lub neej xwm txheej, ib qho tseem ceeb ntawm lub ntiaj teb yog tsim.

2. Pib nrog cov kab lus classic (“Ib zaug ib zaug…”, “Nyob hauv ib lub nceeg vaj, hauv ib lub xeev”), teb cov lus nug uas yog cov cim ntawm zaj dab neeg.

3. Tsis txhob cuam tshuam cov duab ntawm tus phab ej: lawv yuav tsum yog cov neeg sawv cev ntawm qhov zoo lossis qhov phem.

4. Ua raws li cov laj thawj ntawm cov phiaj xwm thiab kev sib raug zoo uas ua rau thiab cuam tshuam. Thaum kev phem tau ua tiav hauv zaj dab neeg, nws yuav tsum paub meej tias leej twg, ua li cas thiab vim li cas thiaj ua nws. Qhov kev sib raug zoo ntawm cov zajlus sib raug rau kev sib raug zoo ntawm peb cov kev xav. Thiab tau ua tiav nws, peb yuav ua tiav lub hom phiaj ntawm lub neej.

5. Nco ntsoov tias ib qho ntawm cov cav tseem ceeb ntawm zaj dab neeg yog khawv koob, txuj ci tseem ceeb. Tsis txhob hnov qab siv cov lus tsis txaus ntseeg, tsis muaj txiaj ntsig, tsis txaus ntseeg txav: "dheev lub tsev pheeb suab tawm hauv av", "nws yoj nws cov khawv koob wand - thiab tus tub huabtais los ua txoj sia." Siv cov khoom siv khawv koob: pob, zuag, daim iav.

Yog hais tias ib tug me nyuam mloog koj zaj dab neeg, nws puas yuav tiv thaiv cov ntsiab lus no? Tsis yog, nws yuav dhuav thiab khiav mus

6. Khaws daim duab ua ntej ntawm koj ob lub qhov muag. Raws li koj qhia zaj dab neeg, nco ntsoov tias txhua lub sijhawm tuaj yeem nthuav tawm hauv daim duab tiag tiag. Tsis muaj abstraction, tsuas yog tshwj xeeb. "Tus ntxhais huabtais txaus siab" yog qhov paub daws teeb, "tus ntxhais huab tais poob tsis muaj sia lossis tuag" - kom meej meej.

7. Tsis txhob ua kom nyuaj lossis ua kom ntev ntawm cov phiaj xwm. Yog hais tias ib tug me nyuam tau mloog koj zaj dab neeg, nws puas yuav tiv thaiv tag nrho cov ntsiab lus no? Tsis yog, nws yuav dhuav thiab khiav mus. Sim ua kom nws mloog.

8. Xaus zaj dab neeg nrog cov kab lus classic sib dhos, tab sis tsis yog nrog qhov xaus thiab tsis nrog kev coj ncaj ncees ntawm qhov tau hais, tab sis nrog "cork" clogging cov lus piav qhia: "Qhov no yog qhov kawg ntawm zaj dab neeg, tab sis. leej twg mloog …", "Thiab lawv nyob kaj siab lug mus ib txhis."

9. Muab zaj dab neeg sau npe. suav nrog cov npe ntawm cov cim lossis cov npe ntawm cov khoom tshwj xeeb, tab sis tsis yog cov ntsiab lus paub daws teeb meem. Tsis yog "Rau Kev Hlub thiab Kev Ncaj Ncees", tab sis "Nyob rau ntawm Poj huab tais Dawb thiab Paj Dawb."

Nyob rau hauv tus txheej txheem ntawm kev sau ib zaj dab neeg, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas yuav tsum tau tsom mus rau lub cev kev xav. Tau xeev siab? Nws txhais tau hais tias kev xav tau tsis meej pem, ploj mus. Peb yuav tsum rov qab mus rau qhov chaw pib thiab saib seb qhov twg tsis ua haujlwm tau tshwm sim. Tau txais kev tshoov siab, adrenaline ncaws hauv, koj puas blush? Koj nyob ntawm txoj kev.

Yog tias koj tus kheej zaj dab neeg tsis yog yug los, koj tuaj yeem coj los ua ib qho ntawm ntau yam uas twb muaj lawm - koj yuav xav hloov nws.

Thiab cia zaj dab neeg nrog kev zoo siab xaus yog koj thawj kauj ruam mus rau lub neej zoo siab!