Ntawm qhov cuam tshuam ntawm kev ua si hauv computer niaj hnub: Tsis txhob qhia cov menyuam yaus tua

2024 Tus sau: Seth Attwood | [email protected]. Kawg hloov kho: 2023-12-16 16:06

Retired Lieutenant Colonel David Grossman co-sau ib phau ntawv nrog Gloria de Gaetano txoj cai Tsis txhob Qhia Peb Cov Me Nyuam tua. Peb yuav tshaj tawm txoj kev tawm tsam tawm tsam kev ua phem hauv TV, hauv cov yeeb yaj kiab thiab kev ua si hauv computer. " Tom qab hnov cov tub ceev xwm hais lus ntawm lub rooj sib tham "Shock Violence" txhawb nqa los ntawm New Jersey Psychological Association, Air txhua lub limtiam cov neeg sau xov xwm xam phaj nws.

- Cia peb pib nrog koj phau ntawv nrog lub npe provocative - "Tsis txhob qhia peb cov menyuam tua." Thov qhia rau peb paub me ntsis txog nws thiab dab tsi ua rau koj coj nws.

- Ua li no, koj yuav tsum xub nco ntsoov txog kuv thawj phau ntawv. Nws yog hais txog yuav ua li cas tua neeg puas siab puas ntsws ntau dua … tsis yog rau txhua tus, ntawm chav kawm, tab sis rau cov tub rog. Thaum kawg, muaj ib tshooj me me, uas tau hais tias cov tswv yim siv hauv cov tub rog los qhia cov tub rog tam sim no rov ua dua yam tsis muaj kev txwv rau cov menyuam yaus cov neeg tuaj saib. Qhov no aroused heev, zoo heev txaus siab thaum ntawd. Phau ntawv tau pib siv los ua phau ntawv kawm thoob plaws ntiaj teb: hauv cov koom haum tub ceev xwm, thiab hauv tub rog, thiab hauv kev tswj hwm kev thaj yeeb.

Zoo, ces kuv so haujlwm thiab rov qab los tsev. Qhov no yog thaum Lub Ob Hlis 1998. Thiab nyob rau lub Peb Hlis Ntuj xyoo no nyob rau hauv peb lub zos, ob tug tub hluas, 11 thiab 13 xyoo, qhib tua thiab tua 15 neeg. Thiab tom qab ntawd kuv tsuas yog ua kev cob qhia hauv ib pab pawg kws kho mob hlwb, thiab kuv tau thov kom koom nrog hauv kev nug cov kws qhia ntawv. Kub ntawm pob taws, yog li hais, tsuas yog 18 teev tom qab lawv nyob ntawm qhov chaw ntawm kev tua neeg phem tshaj plaws hauv tsev kawm ntawv hauv keeb kwm Asmeskas.

Yog li ntawd, kuv pom tau hais tias nws tsis muaj peev xwm nyob twj ywm, thiab hais lus ntawm ob peb lub rooj sab laj uas mob siab rau cov teeb meem ntawm kev ua tsov ua rog thiab kev thaj yeeb. Thiab ces nws tau sau ib tsab xov xwm "Peb cov me nyuam raug qhia kom tua." Nws tau txais txiaj ntsig zoo heev. Qhov no qhia tau hais tias tib neeg qhib los tham txog lub ncauj lus no.

Yog li kuv tau tsim ib phau ntawv tshiab los ntawm ntiav Gloria de Gaetano, ib tus kws tshaj lij hauv kev ua haujlwm, los ua tus sau. Ib xyoos tom qab, thaum lub tsev kawm ntawv theem siab Littleton tua neeg, phau ntawv tau npaj txhij.

- Thawj tshooj ntawm koj phau ntawv qhia meej tias txhua yam kev kho mob hnyav thiab lwm yam kev tshawb fawb tau ua nyob rau 25 xyoo dhau los qhia tau hais tias muaj kev sib raug zoo ntawm kev raug tsim txom hauv xov xwm thiab kev loj hlob ntawm kev ua phem hauv zej zog. Koj puas tuaj yeem qhia peb ntxiv txog qhov no?

- Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom hais txog ntawm no uas peb tab tom tham txog VISUAL cov duab. Tom qab tag nrho, cov lus sau los ntawm tus menyuam yaus hnub nyoog qis dua 8 xyoo tsis tau pom zoo, nws yog, raws li nws tau, lim tawm los ntawm vim li cas. Kev hais lus ntawm qhov ncauj pib pom tiag tiag tom qab 4 xyoos, thiab ua ntej ntawd lub paj hlwb cortex lim cov ntaub ntawv ua ntej nws mus txog qhov chaw uas tswj kev xav. Tab sis peb tab tom tham txog VISUAL dluab ntawm kev ua phem! Lawv cov menyuam muaj peev xwm pom tau thaum ntxov li ib xyoos thiab ib nrab: kom pom thiab pib xyaum qhov nws pom!Ntawd yog, ntawm ib xyoos thiab ib nrab, cov duab pom kev txhoj puab heev, tsis hais qhov twg lawv tshwm sim - ntawm lub vijtsam TV, hauv kev ua yeeb yaj kiab lossis hauv kev ua si hauv computer - nkag mus rau hauv lub cev ntawm lub zeem muag mus rau hauv lub hlwb thiab nkag mus rau hauv lub siab lub ntsws.

Qhov sib xyaw ntawm cov pab pawg tshawb fawb yog amazing. Thaum kawg ntawm phau ntawv, peb sau cov kev tshawb pom hauv cheeb tsam no nyob rau hauv raws sijhawm. Qhov teeb meem no tau hais los ntawm American Medical Association (AMA), American Psychological Association, National Institute of Mental Health, thiab lwm yam. Muaj kev kawm dav dav los ntawm UNESCO. Thiab lub lim tiam dhau los no kuv tau tuav cov ntaub ntawv los ntawm International Committee ntawm Red Cross qhia tias kev ua phem ntawm kev ua phem - tshwj xeeb tshaj yog cov kev phem, kev phem kev qias ntawm kev ua tsov rog niaj hnub no - cuam tshuam ncaj qha rau kev tshaj tawm ntawm kev ua phem hauv xov xwm. Ib txoj kev tshawb fawb xyoo 1998 los ntawm UNESCO kuj pom tias kev nruj kev tsiv hauv zej zog yog txhawb los ntawm kev ua phem hauv xov xwm. Cov pov thawj uas tau sau tseg yog qhov nyuaj thiab muaj ntau heev uas sib cav nrog nws zoo li kev sib cav tias kev haus luam yeeb tsis ua rau mob qog noj ntshav. Txawm li cas los xij, muaj cov kws tshaj lij tsis txaj muag, feem ntau them nyiaj los ntawm tib lub xov xwm, uas tsis lees paub qhov tseeb. Thaum lub rooj sib tham kaw ntawm lub rooj sib tham hauv New Jersey, ib tug txiv neej zoo li no tau sawv thiab hais tias, Koj tsis tuaj yeem ua pov thawj tias kev kub ntxhov ntawm kev tshuaj ntsuam ua rau muaj kev kub ntxhov hauv zej zog. Qhov no tsis muaj tseeb, tsis muaj pov thawj li ntawd!”

Cia kuv ceeb toom rau koj tias lub rooj sib tham tau tuav los ntawm New Jersey Psychological Association, ib ceg ntawm American Psychological Association, uas nws lub rooj sab laj tau txiav txim siab xyoo 1992 tias qhov kev sib cav txog cov ncauj lus no tau dhau lawm. Thiab nyob rau xyoo 1999, Lub Koom Haum tau tshaj tawm nws tus kheej ntau dua, hais tias kom tsis lees paub qhov cuam tshuam ntawm kev tshuaj ntsuam kev ua phem rau hauv tsev neeg yog zoo li tsis lees paub txoj cai ntawm lub ntiajteb txawj nqus.

Kev cuam tshuam ntawm computer games

- Tam sim no cia peb tham me ntsis txog computer "shooters". Kuv xav tsis thoob thaum kawm los ntawm koj phau ntawv uas lub khoos phis tawj simulations siv los ntawm Asmeskas cov tub rog thiab cov tub ceev xwm feem ntau yog qhov tsis paub meej ntawm qee qhov kev ua si nrov dua.

- Ntawm no peb yuav tau ua ib qho kev mus ncig me me rau hauv keeb kwm. Thaum Ntiaj Teb Tsov Rog II, tam sim ntawd tau pom meej tias peb cov tub rog feem ntau tsis muaj peev xwm tua cov yeeb ncuab. Ua tsis tau vim qhov tsis zoo hauv kev cob qhia tub rog. Qhov tseeb yog tias cov tub rog tau raug qhia kom tua ntawm cov hom phiaj pleev xim. Thiab nyob rau pem hauv ntej tsis muaj lub hom phiaj zoo li no, thiab tag nrho lawv cov kev cob qhia tau nqis mus rau hauv dej. Feem ntau, ntau tus tub rog, nyob rau hauv kev ntshai, kev ntxhov siab thiab lwm yam xwm txheej, tsuas yog siv tsis tau lawv cov riam phom. Nws tau pom tseeb tias cov tub rog yuav tsum tau qhia cov txuj ci tsim nyog. Tom qab tag nrho, peb tsis txhob tso tus kws tsav dav hlau tam sim ntawd tom qab nws tau nyeem phau ntawv, thiab peb tsis hais tias: "Yav tom ntej." Tsis yog, peb yuav muab nws ua ntej rau kev tawm dag zog ntawm cov simulator tshwj xeeb. Txawm tias thaum Tsov Rog Ntiaj Teb Zaum II, twb muaj ntau lub simulators uas cov kws tsav dav hlau tau xyaum siv dav hlau mus ntev.

Raws li qhov xav tau tshwm sim los tsim simulators uas cov tub rog yuav kawm tua. Hloov cov hom phiaj ib txwm muaj, silhouettes ntawm tib neeg cov duab yuav tsum tau siv. Xws li simulators tau ua pov thawj tias ua tau zoo heev. Marine Corps tau txais daim ntawv tso cai los siv Doom game ua tus simulator tactical. Cov rog hauv av tau txais yuav "Super Nintendo". Nco ntsoov muaj xws li kev ua si qub ntawm kev yos hav zoov duck? Peb hloov cov phom yas nrog rab phom yas M16, thiab tsis yog cov ducks, cov duab ntawm cov neeg tshwm sim ntawm qhov screen.

Tam sim no peb muaj ntau txhiab tus simulators thoob ntiaj teb. Lawv tau ua pov thawj tias muaj txiaj ntsig. Nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv no, peb lub hom phiaj yog qhia cov tub rog yuav ua li cas teb tau zoo rau ib tug hem. Tom qab tag nrho, yog tias lawv qhib tsis tau hluav taws, lawv ntshai, ces tej yam txaus ntshai tuaj yeem tshwm sim. Tib yam siv rau tub ceev xwm. Yog li ntawd, kuv pom cov kev cob qhia zoo li no. Txij li thaum peb muab cov tub rog thiab tub ceev xwm riam phom, peb yuav tsum qhia lawv siv lawv li cas.

Txawm li cas los xij, tsis muaj kev sib koom ua ke hauv zej zog txog qhov teeb meem no. Qee tus neeg xav tsis thoob los ntawm kev xyaum ua neeg tua neeg, txawm tias ua los ntawm cov tub rog thiab tub ceev xwm. Yog li ntawd peb tuaj yeem hais li cas txog kev nkag mus tsis tau ntawm cov menyuam yaus rau cov simulators? Qhov no phem heev!

Thaum McVeigh raug teeb meem nrog, kuv tau raug caw los ua tus kws tshaj lij rau tsoomfwv pawg thawj coj. Kev tiv thaiv tau sim ua pov thawj tias nws yog kev ua tub rog thiab Gulf War uas tig Timothy McVeigh mus rau hauv ib tug neeg tua neeg. Qhov tseeb, txhua yam yog qhov txawv. Raws li Lub Chaw Haujlwm Saib Xyuas Kev Ncaj Ncees, cov tub rog ua tsov rog muaj feem tsawg dua mus rau hauv tsev kaw neeg dua li cov qub tub rog tsis muaj hnub nyoog. Qhov no tsis yog qhov xav tsis thoob, vim tias lawv muaj kev txwv loj hauv sab hauv.

Kev tua neeg simulators

- Ua li cas?

- Ua ntej, peb muab cov neeg laus rau cov simulators zoo li no. Qhov thib ob, kev qhuab qhia tub rog hnyav heev. Kev qhuab ntuas uas dhau los ua ib feem ntawm koj. Thiab ntawm no tua neeg simulators tau muab rau cov menyuam yaus! Rau dab tsi? Tsuas yog qhia lawv yuav ua li cas tua thiab tsim kom muaj kev mob siab rau kev tua neeg.

Cov xwm txheej hauv qab no kuj tseem yuav tsum nco ntsoov: cov txuj ci hauv qhov xwm txheej ntxhov siab tau rov ua dua tshiab. Yav dhau los, thaum peb tseem muaj revolvers, tub ceev xwm mus tua ntau yam. Los ntawm ib rab phom, rau qhov kev txhaj tshuaj tuaj yeem raug rho tawm ntawm ib zaug. Txij li thaum peb tsis kam sau cov ntawv siv nyiaj hauv av tom qab, peb rub tawm lub nruas, nchuav rau hauv peb lub xib teg, muab tso rau hauv peb lub hnab ris, rub lub revolver thiab raug rho tawm haujlwm. Lawm, hauv kev tua tiag tiag koj yuav tsis ua li ntawd - tsis muaj sijhawm rau qhov ntawd. Tab sis koj puas xav txog? Thiab nyob rau hauv lub neej tiag tiag, tom qab kev tua, cov tub ceev xwm lub hnab ris tau dhau los ua tag nrho ntawm cov ntawv siv nyiaj! Thiab cov txiv neej tsis paub yuav ua li cas nws tshwm sim. Kev cob qhia tsuas yog ob zaug hauv ib xyoos, thiab rau lub hlis tom qab, cov tub ceev xwm yuav cia li tso cov cartridges khoob hauv lawv lub hnab ris.

Tab sis cov menyuam yaus uas ua si hauv computer aggression tsis tua ob zaug hauv ib xyoos, tab sis txhua hmo. Thiab lawv tua txhua tus neeg uas tuaj rau hauv lawv lub zeem muag kom txog thaum lawv ntaus txhua lub hom phiaj lossis tso tawm tag nrho cov cartridges. Yog li thaum lawv pib tua hauv lub neej tiag tiag, tib yam tshwm sim. Hauv Pearl, Paducah, thiab Jonesboro, tag nrho cov menyuam yaus tua neeg thawj zaug xav tua ib tus neeg. Tab sis lawv nres tsis tau! Lawv tua txhua tus neeg uas ntes tau lawv lub qhov muag kom txog thaum lawv ntaus lub hom phiaj kawg lossis lawv khiav tawm ntawm cov mos txwv! Ces tub ceev xwm nug lawv tias: “Zoo, tsis ua li cas, koj tua tus uas koj chim siab rau. Thiab vim li cas lwm tus? Tom qab tag nrho, muaj koj cov phooj ywg ntawm lawv!” Thiab cov me nyuam tsis paub yuav teb li cas!

Thiab peb paub. Ib tug menyuam yaus ua si tua phom tsis txawv ntawm tus kws tsav dav hlau ua si lub davhlau simulator: txhua yam uas tau rub tawm rau hauv lawv lub sijhawm tam sim no yuav rov qab ua dua. Peb qhia me nyuam tua, txhawb kev tua neeg nrog kev txaus siab thiab khoom plig! Peb kuj qhia koj kom zoo siab thiab ua kev lom zem thaum pom qhov tseeb ntawm kev tuag thiab kev txom nyem ntawm tib neeg. Qhov tsis lees paub ntawm cov neeg tsim khoom ua si muab cov menyuam yaus nrog tub rog thiab tub ceev xwm simulators yog qhov txaus ntshai. Nws zoo li muab txhua tus menyuam ib rab phom lossis rab phom. Los ntawm qhov pom ntawm psychology - tsis txawv!

“Koj puas nco qab tus neeg tua neeg 6 xyoo los ntawm Flint, Michigan? Koj sau tias qhov kev tua neeg no yog qhov tsis ncaj ncees lawm…

- Yog. Lub siab xav tua tau tshwm sim nyob rau hauv ntau, tab sis thoob plaws hauv keeb kwm ntawm noob neej, tsuas yog ib tug me me txhais tes ntawm cov neeg tau ua kom muaj peev xwm ntawm nws. Rau cov neeg zoo tib yam, noj qab nyob zoo hauv zej zog, kev tua neeg yog qhov tsis zoo.

Wb hais tias kuv yog ib tug ranger. Tab sis kuv tsis tau muab M16 tam sim ntawd thiab hloov mus rau qeb ntawm superkillers. Nws siv kuv ntau xyoo los npaj. Koj puas nkag siab? Nws yuav siv sijhawm ntau xyoo los qhia tib neeg txog kev tua neeg, txhawm rau txhim kho lawv cov txuj ci tsim nyog thiab lub siab xav ua. Yog li ntawd, thaum ntsib nrog cov menyuam yaus tua neeg, peb yuav tsum teb cov lus nug nyuaj heev. Vim nws yog tshiab. TSHIAB TSHIAB! Hauv Jonesboro, cov tub hluas hnub nyoog 11 thiab 13 tua 15 tus neeg. Thaum cov menyuam no muaj hnub nyoog 21 xyoos, lawv yuav raug tso tawm. Tsis muaj leej twg tuaj yeem txwv qhov no, vim tias peb cov kev cai lij choj tsis tsim los rau cov neeg tua neeg ntawm lub hnub nyoog no.

Thiab tam sim no kuj muaj rau xyoo. Lawv nyob hauv Michigan xav tias lawv tau pov hwm lawv tus kheej tawm tsam qhov kev npaj txhij txog los ntawm kev txo qis hnub nyoog ntawm kev ua txhaum cai rau 7 xyoo. Txawm tias cov menyuam muaj hnub nyoog 7 xyoo, Michigan cov tub ceev xwm txiav txim siab, yuav tsum tau lav ris rau txoj cai raws li cov neeg laus. Thiab ces coj nws thiab tshwm sim ib tug neeg tua neeg 6 xyoo!

Zoo, ob peb hnub tom qab kev tua nyob rau hauv Flint, ib tug me nyuam nyob rau hauv Washington tau tawm ib rab phom los ntawm lub txee sab saum toj, thauj nws nws tus kheej, tawm mus rau hauv txoj kev thiab tua ob lub volleys ntawm cov me nyuam taug kev. Thaum tub ceev xwm nug seb nws kawm tau phom nyob qhov twg - tej zaum lawv yuav xav tias nws txiv tau ua tsis ncaj ncees lawm - tus tub hais tias: "Yog lawm, kuv kawm hauv TV."

Thiab yog tias koj rov qab mus rau tus menyuam los ntawm Flint … Thaum tus tub ceev xwm hais rau nws txiv, uas nyob hauv tsev lojcuj, txog qhov tau tshwm sim, nws teb tias: “Raws li kuv tau hnov, muaj te los ntawm kuv daim tawv nqaij. Vim kuv paub tam sim no: qhov no yog kuv tus hluas nraug. Vim kuv tus hluas nraug, "nws ntxiv rau amplify cov nyhuv," tsuas yog hlub sadistic films."

Saib? Heev me ntsis, thiab twb dhau mus vwm los ntawm kev ua phem hauv xov xwm. Thiab nws mus vwm vim nws txiv tau zaum thiab saib cov xwm txheej ntshav, zoo siab, luag thiab lom zem txog kev tuag thiab kev txom nyem ntawm tib neeg. Feem ntau ntawm 2, 3, 4 xyoos, thiab txawm tias thaum muaj hnub nyoog 5-6 xyoo, cov menyuam yaus ntshai heev ntawm cov spectacles. Tab sis yog tias koj sim sim, ces thaum muaj hnub nyoog 6 xyoo koj tuaj yeem ua rau lawv poob rau hauv kev hlub nrog kev ua phem. Qhov ntawd yog qhov txaus ntshai heev!

Teb rau kev nruj kev tsiv

Tej zaum, ntau tus tau pom cov yeeb yaj kiab "Schindler's List". Thiab vam tias tsis muaj leej twg ntawm lawv luag thaum saib. Tab sis thaum qhov kev tshuaj ntsuam zoo li no tau npaj rau cov tub ntxhais kawm theem siab hauv cheeb tsam nroog Los Angeles, qhov kev tshuaj ntsuam yeeb yaj kiab yuav tsum raug cuam tshuam vim tias cov menyuam yaus tau luag thiab lom zem txog qhov tshwm sim. Steven Spielberg nws tus kheej, xav tsis thoob los ntawm tus cwj pwm no, tuaj tham pem hauv ntej, tab sis lawv kuj luag rau nws! Tej zaum, tau kawg, nws tsuas yog California nkaus xwb uas ua rau zoo li ntawd. Tej zaum lawv txhua tus nyob ntawd nrog txais tos. Tab sis hauv xeev Arkansas, hauv Jonesboro, muaj qee yam zoo sib xws. Kev tua neeg tua neeg tau tshwm sim hauv tsev kawm theem siab, thiab tom qab ntawd, tom qab lub qhov rooj, cov tub ntxhais kawm theem siab tab tom kawm - cov kwv tij thiab cov muam ntawm cov menyuam yaus uas raug tua los ntawm cov neeg tua neeg. Yog li, raws li cov lus tim khawv ntawm ib tug xib fwb, thaum nws tuaj rau cov tub ntxhais kawm ntawv theem siab thiab hais txog qhov xwm txheej - thiab lawv twb tau hnov qhov kev txhaj tshuaj, pom lub tsheb thauj neeg mob, - cov lus luag ntxhi thiab kev zoo siab tau hnov hauv cov lus teb.

Peb cov menyuam raug qhia kom txaus siab rau lwm tus txoj kev tuag, lwm tus raug tsim txom. Tej zaum, tus me nyuam muaj rau xyoo ntawm Lint twb tau qhia. Kuv twv nws ua si txhoj puab heev hauv computer ua si thiab!

- Yog, nws tau tshaj tawm hauv xov xwm.

"Koj puas paub yog vim li cas kuv tsis xav tsis thoob txog kev ua si?" Vim nws tsuas tua ib zaug xwb thiab tam sim ntawd ntaus lub hauv paus pob txha. Tab sis qhov no yog qhov nyuaj, nws xav tau qhov tseeb zoo. Tab sis kev ua si hauv computer yog ib qho kev ua haujlwm zoo. Muaj ntau ntawm lawv, los ntawm txoj kev, muab nyiaj tshwj xeeb rau headshots. Tej zaum rooj plaub hauv Paducah qhia kuv cov lus zoo tshaj plaws. Ib tug tub hluas hnub nyoog 14 xyoo nyiag ib rab yaj phom.22 caliber los ntawm ib tus neeg nyob ze. Ua ntej ntawd, nws yeej tsis tau koom nrog kev tua, thiab tau nyiag rab phom, nws raug rho tawm me ntsis ntawm nws nrog tus tub nyob ze ob peb hnub ua ntej kev tua neeg. Thiab ces nws nqa riam phom tuaj rau tsev kawm ntawv thiab tua 8 leej.

Yog li, raws li FBI, rau cov tub ceev xwm nruab nrab, nws suav hais tias yog ib txwm muaj thaum ib qho ntawm 5 lub mos txwv ntaus lub hom phiaj. Thiab tus txiv neej no tua 8 mos txwv thiab tsis nco! 8 mos txwv - 8 tus neeg raug tsim txom. Ntawm no, 5 hits rau lub taub hau, qhov seem 3 - mus rau lub cev sab sauv. Qhov tshwm sim zoo kawg nkaus! Thiab qhov no tsis yog ib tug so haujlwm ranger zoo li kuv. Qhov no yog ib tug me nyuam tub 14 xyoo uas txog thaum ntawd tsis tuav riam phom hauv nws txhais tes! Qhov twg nws tau txais qhov zoo kawg nkaus, tsis tau pom dua qhov tseeb? Ntxiv mus, raws li tau sau tseg los ntawm tag nrho cov neeg tim khawv ntawm qhov xwm txheej, nws sawv hauv paus rau qhov chaw, tua ncaj qha rau ntawm nws, tsis txhob dodging los ntawm sab xis lossis sab laug. Nws zoo nkaus li tias nws txoj hauv kev, ib qho tom qab, ntaus lub hom phiaj uas tshwm sim pem hauv ntej ntawm nws ntawm qhov screen. Yuav ua li cas kuv yuav ua si kuv filthy computer game!

- Nws zoo li koj tsis tau succumb rau qhov kev tshaj tawm ntawm Txoj Kev Tawm Tsam Tawm Tsam Tawm Tsam, uas nws cov neeg tawm tsam tau hais tias muaj menyuam yaus nrog kev ua phem phem. Thiab yuav ua li cas yog tias lawv raug txheeb xyuas nyob rau lub sijhawm, ces nws yuav yooj yim mus nrhiav cov neeg phem. Nyob rau hauv Virginia, lawv txawm pib tsim tsev loj cuj "rau kev loj hlob", ua kom cov hlwb ua ntej, suav rau yav tom ntej nce ntawm cov neeg ua phem phem los ntawm pawg neeg no.

"Kuv yuav muab nws li no: tej zaum ib feem me me ntawm cov pej xeem yog qhov ua rau ua phem heev. Kuv tsis thov qhov no, tab sis tsuas yog ua qhov kev xav. Tab sis tom qab ntawd qhov feem pua ntawm no yuav tsum tsis txhob hloov lub sijhawm, ntawm ib tiam dhau ib tiam. Tom qab tag nrho, congenital nta yog ib yam dab tsi ruaj khov. Zoo li txhua yam kab mob caj ces. Tab sis thaum koj pom EXPLOSION ntawm kev ua phem, nws ua rau kev txiav txim siab tias qhov xwm txheej tshiab tau tshwm sim uas cuam tshuam rau lub ntuj tsim ntawm txhua yam. Thiab nug koj tus kheej: “Qhov no yog dab tsi? Qhov kev hloov pauv twg hloov qhov tsis tu ncua?"

Xws li kev ua txhaum loj loj tau nce los ntawm 2 lossis 5 zaug, tsuas yog 15 xyoo xwb, tsis tau pom dua! Qhov no yog ib rooj plaub uas tsis tau muaj dua. Yog li, nco ntsoov nug koj tus kheej li cas cov khoom xyaw tshiab tau tshwm sim hauv "compote" qub. Thiab nkag siab tias peb ntxiv cov khoom xyaw no rau peb tus kheej. Peb tab tom tsa cov neeg tua neeg, peb tab tom tsa cov neeg sociopaths.

Thaum tus thawj tswj hwm ntawm CBS raug nug tom qab Littleton tua neeg yog tias cov xov xwm koom nrog, nws teb tias: "Yog tias leej twg xav tias kev tshaj xov xwm tsis muaj dab tsi nrog nws, ces nws yog ib tug neeg ruam tag."

Yog li lawv paub! Lawv paub tias lawv ua dab tsi thiab tseem ua lag luam nyob rau hauv kev tuag, ntshai heev, kev puas tsuaj lub tswv yim. Ib pawg ntawm cov tib neeg yog enriched los ntawm qhov no, thiab peb tag nrho kev vam meej yog nyob rau hauv kev hem thawj. Cia peb nco qab Maslow lub hierarchy ntawm kev xav tau. Hauv plawv ntawm peb kev vam meej yog qhov xav tau kev tiv thaiv thiab kev ruaj ntseg. Lub hauv paus yuav ua rau - tag nrho lub tsev yuav vau.