Peb yuav ua li cas rau cov menyuam yaus

2024 Tus sau: Seth Attwood | [email protected]. Kawg hloov kho: 2023-12-16 16:06

Ib tug poj niam hnub nyoog plaub caug xyoo qhia kuv li cas ib zaug, thaum nws tseem yog menyuam yaus, nws niam nruj heev hnav nws lub tsho tshiab thiab, xa nws tawm mus taug kev, hais hauv lub suab hnyav: "Yog tias koj tuaj qias neeg, kuv yuav tua koj. !" Nws tau mus rau hauv lub vaj thiab thaum xub thawj ntshai heev ua kom tsawg kawg yog ib qho txawv txav, nrog kev ntshai heev xav tias tej yam yuav tshwm sim rau hnav khaub ncaws.

Tab sis tom qab ntawd cov me nyuam tawm mus rau hauv vaj, qhov kev ua si pib.

Maj mam, kev ntshai tso tseg ntawm nws thiab nws pib ua si, zoo li txhua tus menyuam yaus. Tab sis thaum lub sij hawm qhov kev ua si, ib tug neeg thawb nws nyob rau hauv ib tug txaus ntshai kev sib ntaus sib tua menyuam yaus. Nws stumbled, poob, sawv, stepped ntawm ntug ntawm tiab. Muaj ib qho tawg ntawm ntaub, thiab rau nws ntshai heev nws pom nws hnav ris tsho - smeared, nrog ib tug ripped frill. Nws nco txog qhov kev ntshai ntshai mus tas li ntawm nws lub neej - nws paub tseeb tias tam sim no nws niam yuav tua nws. Nws pib quaj, thiab nws quaj heev uas lwm tus niam nyob hauv lub vaj sib sau nyob ib puag ncig nws thiab pib vying kom nws siab. Tab sis tsis muaj dab tsi pab tau - vim tias tus me nyuam paub tias niam yuav tua nws.

Xav txog qhov kev poob siab uas tus ntxhais tau ntsib, qhov txaus ntshai uas nws tau ntsib tiag tiag yog cov neeg laus, paub tias yog vim li cas nws thiaj li quaj, tsis txawm sim yaum kom nws siab, tab sis pib nrhiav txoj hauv kev tawm ntawm qhov xwm txheej. Nws raug coj los tsev rau ib tug ntawm cov poj niam, qhov chaw hnav khaub ncaws raug tshem tawm, ntxuav, ironed kom qhuav. Tom qab ntawd nws raug coj mus rau txoj kev nyob ze, qhov chaw uas muaj ib lub studio zam. Nyob ntawd, cov poj niam tau piav qhia qhov xwm txheej rau cov neeg ua haujlwm ntawm atelier - thiab lawv sewed lub torn ntawm frill thiaj li tsis muaj ib txoj lw. Thiab tsuas yog tom qab tus hluas nkauj tau ntseeg tias tsis muaj dab tsi tshwm sim, nws calmed.

Kuv tau piav txog qhov xwm txheej no los qhia rau koj tias cov menyuam yaus ua txhua yam tiag, lawv ntseeg peb. Peb yog cov neeg tseem ceeb rau lawv. Yog li ntawd, peb lub tswv yim, qhov kev ntsuam xyuas uas lawv ntseeg, raws li qhov tseeb unconditional txog lawv, tej zaum suab zoo li ib kab lus rau lawv. Tshwj xeeb tshaj yog tias peb qhia lawv qhov no ntau zaus, taw qhia rau lawv qee yam ntawm lawv qhov zoo, kev txawj lossis tsis muaj peev xwm. Lawv yeej ntseeg peb. Thiab lawv xav txog peb txoj kev xav txog lawv - zaum kawg, zoo li kev kuaj mob uas peb muab rau lawv. Ib tug niam hais rau kuv lub suab tu siab, doomed:

- Paj huam yog ib qho nyuaj rau nco ntsoov. Tsis nco qab kiag li!

Thiab kuv xav tsis thoob - yuav ua li cas yooj yim thiab xav tsis thoob cov niam txiv ua lawv qhov kev kuaj mob, dooming tus menyuam kom paub meej tias qhov kev kuaj mob no.

"Tab sis vim koj hais li no rau koj tus menyuam, nws yuav tsis nco qab zoo dua," Kuv yuav tsum hais txhua zaus. - Ntawm qhov tsis sib xws, ua tsaug rau koj, nws twb paub tias nws tsis nco qab zoo, tias nws tsis nco qab … Nws lees txais qhov no yog qhov kawg ntawm nws …

Peb tus kheej deprive peb cov me nyuam ntawm lub cib fim rau kev loj hlob, kev nthuav tawm ntawm ib co peev xwm, ua xws li "kev kuaj mob." Kuv nco qab yuav ua li cas xav tsis thoob txhua zaus kuv pom cov duab kos ntawm kuv tus tub xeeb ntxwv - rau lub sijhawm ntev nws kos tiag tiag "kalyak-malyaks", uas yog kos los ntawm cov menyuam yaus, tsis yog cov menyuam yaus ntawm nws lub hnub nyoog. Nws cov phooj ywg nyob rau hauv kindergarten twb nthuav cov duab, qhia txawm ib tug foundations, ib tug teev, xav txog ntawm lub ntsej muag - nws kuj kos cov me nyuam raws li lub hauv paus ntsiab lus - taw tes, taw tes, ob lub voj voog, qhov ncauj, qhov ntswg, dib … Kuv nkag siab - ib txhia lub hlwb cov qauv tseem tsis tsim, yog li ntawd nws thiaj li primitively thiab "tsis raug" rau nws lub hnub nyoog. Thiab tsis muaj ib tug ntawm peb cov neeg laus hais tias - koj tsis paub yuav ua li cas kos … Lub sij hawm dhau mus, thiab cas imperceptibly rau peb txhua tus - tus me nyuam mam li nco dheev pib kos, pib qhia foundations, nplai, thiab lub ntsej muag qhia. Tsuas yog - tsis muaj leej twg muab nws qhov kev kuaj mob "qhov kawg", depriving nws ntawm lub zeem muag ntawm kev kos duab.

(Puas muaj pes tsawg zaus, thaum caw cov neeg laus los kos ib yam dab tsi xav tau hauv cov txheej txheem ntawm qee qhov kev tawm dag zog, kuv hnov: Kuv kos tsis tau! - “Koj paub li cas?” Kuv nug.- Leej twg hais rau koj? Koj nyuam qhuav pib - thiab koj pab tsis tau tab sis ua tau! Tsuas yog cov uas paub tias lawv ua tsis tau thiab tsis sim ntxiv tsis paub yuav ua li cas …”Thiab qhov tseeb, qee zaum hauv ob peb hnub ntawm kev cob qhia tib neeg pib tuaj yeem kos tau! Vim lawv tsuas tso tseg "kev kuaj mob" nws tau ua thaum yau.)

Feem ntau nws yog peb niam txiv "kev kuaj mob" uas ua rau muaj qhov tshwm sim loj tshaj qhov muaj peev xwm lossis tsis muaj peev xwm ua tau ib yam dab tsi. Peb cov kev xav thiab kev ntsuam xyuas qee zaum ua rau cov menyuam yaus muaj kev ntxhov siab, tsis ntseeg lawv tus kheej, poob siab, mus rau kev puas tsuaj. Txawm tias peb tsis muaj txim yuav zoo li: “Yog li koj tau ua dab tsi? Koj ua dab tsi, kuv nug koj!" hais lus hauv lub suab tu siab txog qhov tsis tseem ceeb ntawm tus me nyuam ua rau nws xav tias muaj ib yam dab tsi txaus ntshai tshwm sim. Qee zaum, dua, txawm tias tsis xav tau, peb ua rau tus menyuam muaj kev xav tsis zoo ntawm qhov tshwm sim, ntawm kev puas tsuaj vim nws tau ua ib yam dab tsi uas hloov tsis tau!

Thiab qhov no tuaj yeem ua rau muaj kev kub ntxhov tiag tiag (thiab muaj cov xwm txheej zoo li no!) - rau kev tua tus kheej ntawm tus menyuam, thaum nws tsis tuaj yeem nyob hauv qab lub nra ntawm nws tus kheej kev txhaum thiab kev phem, instilled nyob rau hauv nws, txawm tias unconsciously, tsis nyob rau hauv lub hom phiaj, los ntawm tej niam txiv rau txim. Peb, raws li nws tau, rau txim rau tus menyuam rau qee tus cwj pwm tshwj xeeb, qhia nws txog qhov kawg ntawm peb cov lus xaus txog nws thiab nws qhov kev ua.

Kuv tau hnov ntau zaj dab neeg ntawm cov neeg laus hais txog yuav ua li cas lawv raug "tsim txom" thiab hauv lub neej neeg laus xws li "cov kab lus" ntawm lawv niam lawv txiv. Raws li niam txiv hais, rov hais dua ntau zaus thaum menyuam yaus: "Tus Tswv! Qhov kev rau txim zoo li cas!” - tau ntau xyoo ua rau ib tug neeg muaj kev txhaum, tsis ntseeg tus kheej, txawm tias muaj kev ntshai ntawm kev tsim kev sib raug zoo nrog tus khub. Tseeb tiag - leej twg xav tau kev rau txim li no! Vim li cas koj yuav tsum - xws li - lwj neeg lub neej? Zoo li kuv niam cov lus faj lem: "Tsis muaj dab tsi zoo los ntawm koj!"

Thiab nyob rau hauv ib qho xwm txheej ntawm kev ua tsis tiav, ib txwm muaj rau txhua tus neeg nyob hauv nws lub neej, cov lus no tau tshwm sim hauv kuv lub taub hau raws li kab lus - kuv niam hais tias, tsis muaj dab tsi zoo yuav los ntawm kuv … Raws li "cov lus faj lem": "Rau qhov ntawd ib tug thab plaub zoo li koj, lub tsev loj cuj quaj !” - los ntawm qhov tseeb tshaj plaws - sai los yog tom qab ib tug neeg tau mus rau hauv tsev lojcuj. (Thiab muaj pes tsawg tus ntawm lawv uas tau nyob hauv tsev loj cuj tau npaj rau thaum yau los ntawm lawv niam lawv txiv uas tau muab rau lawv cov menyuam xws li "kev kuaj mob" txaus ntshai!)

Paub txog peb cov yaj saub, lub peev xwm "muaj tswv yim", peb yuav tsum nkag siab tias tus menyuam yuav tsum tsis txhob kawm los ntawm peb txog cov xwm txheej tsis muaj kev cia siab ntawm nws lub neej! Kev hlub ib tug me nyuam txhais tau hais tias yuav tsum qhia nws nyob rau txhua qhov xwm txheej, thaum muaj kev ua tsis tiav lossis tsis pom kev pom, ntseeg nws tus kheej, nrhiav thiab nrhiav txoj hauv kev tawm ntawm txhua qhov xwm txheej. Pom zoo, koj, raws li ib tug neeg laus nyob hauv lub neej laus, paub tias qhov no tseem ceeb npaum li cas. Nws tseem ceeb npaum li cas nws tsis tso tseg rau txhua qhov xwm txheej. Nws tseem ceeb npaum li cas los ntseeg tias txhua yam yuav zoo tiag tiag … Tab sis rau qhov no, peb yuav tsum muab lub sijhawm rau tus menyuam kom pom txoj hauv kev tawm, qhov "infinity" ntawm qhov tseeb lossis kev ua txhaum.

Pab nws paub tias txhua yam tuaj yeem hloov pauv tau, tias nws muaj lub zog los kho qhov yuam kev, ua kom zoo dua, muaj zog dua. Tom qab tag nrho, peb, cov neeg laus, paub tias txhua yam hloov pauv, tias txhua yam yog "tsis muaj tseeb". Nws yog qhov kev paub uas peb yuav tsum tau qhia. Peb yuav tsum qhia lawv txog qhov no. Thiab tsis muaj leej twg tshwj tsis yog peb yuav qhia rau peb cov me nyuam tias lawv muaj lub cib fim nyob zoo txawm tias tom qab ua phem. Tej zaum qhov no yog ib qho kev ntseeg tseem ceeb tshaj plaws uas peb yuav tsum tau tsim hauv peb cov menyuam uas yuav txhawb nqa lawv hauv lub neej. Rau qhov lawv yuav ua tsaug rau peb tiag tiag.

Thiab rau qhov no - dua, koj yuav tsum tau pab tus menyuam kom paub txog qhov laj thawj ntawm nws qhov kev ua - yog li nws yuav yooj yim dua rau kev nkag siab yuav hloov qhov xwm txheej, qhov twg yuav nrhiav tau txoj hauv kev tawm. Thiab rau qhov no, dua, peb yuav tsum muaj peb tus kheej saib tus menyuam. Raws li ib tug me nyuam zoo, thiab tsis raws li ib tug neeg ua phem rau leej twg lub tsev loj cuj twb quaj!

Nws yog nyob rau hauv cov lus piav qhia thiab nyob rau hauv kev ntseeg nyob rau hauv ib tug zoo me nyuam, uas, txawm yog hais tias nws ua ib tug phem deed, muaj lub zeem muag ntawm kho nws tus kheej thiab nyob twj ywm ib tug zoo - thiab muaj ib tug tiag tiag qhia ntawm kev hlub! Tus me nyuam tom - koj yuav tsum qhia nws tias nws yuav loj hlob sai sai thiab tsis txhob tom. Tias tag nrho cov me nyuam yaus tom, tab sis tom qab ntawd lawv txhua tus nres. Tus menyuam tau txais lwm tus yam khoom - vim nws tseem me thiab tsis tuaj yeem tiv taus nws lub siab nyiam. Tab sis nws yeej yuav loj hlob tuaj thiab paub tias txhua tus neeg muaj nws tus kheej thiab koj tuaj yeem nqa lawv tsuas yog nug seb tus neeg no puas yuav tso cai rau koj coj yam uas yog nws. Thiab nws yeej yuav kawm tau qhov no thiab loj hlob mus ua ib tug neeg ncaj ncees. Tus menyuam muaj kev sib ntaus, yog li nws tiv thaiv nws tus kheej. Tab sis dhau sijhawm, nws yuav nkag siab tias koj tuaj yeem tiv thaiv koj tus kheej tsis yog los ntawm kev sib ntaus xwb. Nws yuav kawm kev sib tham, nws yuav kawm xaiv cov phooj ywg rau nws tus kheej, nrog rau leej twg nws yuav tsis muaj kev sib ntaus. Tus me nyuam ua phem rau cov neeg laus, tab sis nws yuav tsum paub coj tus cwj pwm kom tsis txhob ua phem rau lwm tus, kom tsis txhob cuam tshuam nws txoj kev xav rau lawv. Tag nrho cov no los nrog hnub nyoog.

Tus menyuam yuav tsum kawm tias nws zoo li qub. Tias nws yog "zoo li ntawd." Tsuas yog tias nws tseem tsis tau kawm ib yam dab tsi, nws tau ua ib yam dab tsi tsis xav. Tab sis nws muaj peev xwm kho tau tag nrho nws qhov yuam kev. Nws muaj peev xwm hloov tau. Peb yuav tsum tau pab cov me nyuam paub tias tej yam hloov. Tias nws txaj muag yuav dhau mus, tias nws yuav muaj phooj ywg tiag tiag, tias nws yuav kho qhov "deuce", tias tom qab "kev hlub tsis tau", lwm tus yuav muaj tseeb los, lub neej ntawd tsis tas thaum koj tseem muaj sia nyob …

Yog li ntawd, dua, rau peb cov neeg laus, nws tseem ceeb heev kom nco ntsoov peb tus kheej li me me. Peb yuav tsum qhia peb cov me nyuam tias peb to taub lawv, vim hais tias nyob rau hauv thaum yau peb tus kheej - tej zaum lawv coj lwm tus neeg los yog dag, tawm tsam los yog tau txais deuces. Tab sis zoo, ib txwm neeg tau loj hlob tawm ntawm peb. Peb yuav tsum ua tus qauv kev xav hauv lub neej rau peb cov menyuam. Qhov no yog vim li cas peb yuav tsum nco ntsoov peb thaum yau thiab tham nrog peb cov menyuam txog peb thaum yau. Hais txog txoj kev hlub uas xaus rau tu siab heev rau koj, hais txog koj cov kev paub dhau los ntawm lub sijhawm. Hais txog koj qhov kev txaj muag, uas tau dhau lub sijhawm. Hais txog koj quarrels nrog cov phooj ywg, nrog leej twg tom qab koj tau ua kev thaj yeeb. Nco ntsoov lub hwj chim loj kawg nkaus ntawm HUAB TAIS lo lus, thiab Leej Txiv lo lus tshwj xeeb. Thiab txawm li cas los xij tshwm sim hauv lub neej - qhia koj cov menyuam: Muaj ib qho chaw rau kev hloov pauv kom zoo dua!