9 kev tshawb pom txog kev ua niam txiv

2024 Tus sau: Seth Attwood | [email protected]. Kawg hloov kho: 2023-12-16 16:06

9 Kev tshawb pom txog kev ua niam ua txiv los ntawm ib tus neeg ua haujlwm hauv tsev menyuam ntsuag

1. Kev hlub tshua yog qhov kev xav phem tshaj plaws uas tuaj yeem hnov txog tus neeg, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog rau tus menyuam ntsuag.

Thaum koj hnov lo lus "tus neeg siab phem", koj xav li cas rau nws? Tej zaum, qhov no yog qhov nthuav, me me uas txawj ntse, muaj zog thiab kev cia siab rau yav tom ntej? Ib yam dab tsi tsis haum, txoj cai? Yog li ntawd, lawv tu siab rau cov neeg txom nyem, thiab lawv ua siab ntev rau lwm tus, empathize thiab pab nrog deeds, tsis lo lus.

Discovery #1 tau tshwm sim thaum kuv tau paub cov menyuam no zoo dua. Raws li ib tug me nyuam kawm ntawv ntawm ib lub tsev kawm ntawv pedagogical, nyob rau hauv kuv lub xyoo peb kuv tau ua camp xyaum. Ntawm lwm lub tsev kho mob yog Seagull camp, uas yog cov menyuam yaus lub tsev kawm ntawv nce qib, thiab muaj caij nyoog kuv tau mus txog ntawd. Kev mus xyuas cov menyuam ntsuag no muaj kev ntxhov siab me ntsis, zoo siab, ntau dua vim tias txhua tus neeg uas paub txog nws, zoo li kev sib koom ua ke tau rov hais dua ib yam: "Au, cov no yog menyuam ntsuag txom nyem, koj yuav tu siab rau lawv, koj yuav quaj, saib lawv." Thiab koj paub dab tsi? Kuv tsis tu siab rau lawv, kiag li. Heev sai sai kuv pom tau hais tias txawm tus yau ntawm lawv muaj zog tshaj kuv. Txhua tus ntawm lawv, nkag mus rau hauv lub tsev kawm ntawv zoo li no, tau ntsib qee yam uas yuav dhau lub hwj chim ntawm tsis yog menyuam yaus hauv tsev, tab sis tsis yog txhua tus neeg laus. Lawv muaj zog, ua siab loj, txawj ntse, zoo siab thiab zoo siab, ua li cas thiaj muaj lub siab xav thov txim rau lawv? Tsis yog, tsuas yog qhuas thiab zoo siab rau lawv txoj kev vam meej!

2. Cov menyuam yaus hauv 2-3 xyoos tuaj yeem noj, hnav khaub ncaws thiab txawm tias sim ua lub txaj ntawm lawv tus kheej.

Kuv feem ntau ua hauj lwm nrog cov hnub nyoog ntawm 6 mus rau 12, tab sis kuv yuav tsum tau siv ib lub hlis nrog cov me nyuam me. Kuv tsis muaj kuv tus kheej kev paub, uas yog, kuv tus kheej cov menyuam. Yog li ntawd, kuv xav tias nws yog nyob rau hauv kev txiav txim ntawm tej yam thaum me nyuam yog li ntawd ywj siab. Discovery #2 ntes tau kuv mus rau lwm qhov, thaum kuv tab tom tos hauv chav tsev kawm ntawv kom kuv cov menyuam hloov khaub ncaws thiab tawg mus rau hauv chav kawm. Kuv pom daim duab zoo li no. Muaj ib tug tub hluas uas muaj 12 xyoos, siab ntev thiab muaj zog, thiab nws niam rub nws lub ris. Niam. ris. Tightens li. Kuv sawv thiab nco qab tias kuv tus ntses bass thaj tsam zoo nkauj npaum li cas ob xyoos rub kuv txhais tes thaum kuv sim pab nws kom ceev cov nyees khawm ntawm lub tiab, nws txaj muag, koj pom, nws yog. Tej zaum tsis yog rau nws.

3. Nyob rau hauv ib tug me nyuam-laus nkawm niam txiv, ib tug neeg yuav twv yuav raug hu lwm tus.

Thiab tus me nyuam yau, qhov zoo dua nws nyob ntawm nws. Koj puas paub vim li cas? Vim tus txwj laus yuav rov xav dua tias nws yuav ua rau tus neeg laus tsis zoo rau nws tus cwj pwm, zoo, lossis nws tsuas yog coj zoo thiab yuav tsis txhob txwm thuam. Cov me nyuam tsuas yog tsis to taub xws li nuances, yog vim li cas kuv muaj ib rooj plaub uas tau los ua tus xov tooj 3. Thawj hnub ntawm lub tsev nyob tau xaus rau kuv lub kua muag thiab cov hlab ntsha. Kuv tsuas yog tsis tuaj yeem tiv nrog kaum tus tubtxib saum ntuj, uas, sai li sai tau thaum lawv pom tau hais tias kuv yog tus phauj zoo heev thiab koj tuaj yeem ntswj txoj hlua ntawm kuv, tig rau 6 teev ua haujlwm rau hauv ntuj txiag teb tsaus. Lub sij hawm ntsiag to los ua tus apogee. Cov me nyuam tsis txaj muag no taug kev ntawm lawv lub taub hau, dhia saum txaj thiab luag luag ntxhi, vim lawv xav tias kuv tsis muaj zog. Nco ntsoov kev hlub? Yog li ntawd kuv thiaj li mus hloov lawv, hlub lawv, vim lawv zoo li kuv thiaj li tiv thaiv thiab tsis muaj mob, tab sis tsis muaj dab tsi. Feem ntau, koj yuav tsum to taub seb koj yog tus thawj coj lossis tus thawj coj, txwv tsis pub nws tsis muaj txoj hauv kev.

4. Lub suab hais kom zoo tshaj yog kawm ua ntej lub sijhawm los txog thaum koj xav tau.

Qhov no yog lwm lub cim xeeb cuam tshuam nrog cov menyuam mos. Nug seb kuv tswj tau li cas kom kov yeej txhua qhov teeb meem thiab ua tiav lub hli hauv kev hlub thiab kev sib haum xeeb nrog cov dab no, thov txim, yaj? Cov lus teb yog qhib # 4 - hais kom ua suab nrov. Tsuas yog tsis txhob cuam tshuam nrog kev npau taws lossis khaus khaus ntawm tus menyuam. Lawv tsuas tham txog impotence ntawm ib tug neeg laus thiab yuav tsis pab. Lus txib yog lub zog. Saib ncaj qha rau ntawm qhov muag, hais lus maj mam, tsis nrov dhau, thiab qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws, hauv lub suab qis. Qhov no yog qhov chaw kawg thaum koj xav tias lawv xav tswj koj.

5. Thawj qhov uas yuav muab rau tus menyuam thaum nws kub taub hau tsuas yog haus dej xwb.

Muaj ib zaug, nyob rau yav tsaus ntuj, tus kws saib xyuas neeg mob pom tias ob peb tus menyuam tau ua npaws me ntsis. Rau qee tus ntawm lawv, qhov no yog qhov pib ntawm qhov txias, tab sis tus so muaj dej txaus kom txias, thiab qhov kub thiab txias poob los ntawm 1-2 degrees. Discovery naj npawb 5 tau ua kom pom tseeb tias qhov kub hauv pliaj thiab tsis muaj lwm yam tsos mob ntawm kev noj qab haus huv tsis zoo yuav qhia tau tias muaj cua sov, lub cev qhuav dej.

6. Feem ntau, cov menyuam yaus nyiam khawm, hnia thiab lub sijhawm nrog lawv tham nrog lub siab lub ntsws dua li cov khoom kim, mus ncig, zaub mov thiab lwm yam.

Orphanages thiab cov tsev kawm ntawv zoo sib xws, txawm tias tau txais kev txhawb los ntawm tsoomfwv cov nyiaj, feem ntau muaj cov neeg txhawb nqa. Yog li ntawd, cov me nyuam no muaj khaub ncaws, khoom ua si, lawv mus rau exhibitions, master classes, theaters, thiab lwm yam. Tab sis qhov no tsis yog qhov tseem ceeb, nws tsis yog kiag li. Discovery #6 tsis yog qhov xwm txheej tshwj xeeb, ntseeg kuv, yog tias tus menyuam txhawj xeeb txog lo lus nug "Leej twg muaj zog dua: Kab laug sab-txiv neej lossis Ninja vaub", koj yuav tsum ua tib zoo mus rau lo lus teb. Yog tias nws xav puag koj, thiab koj tsis khoom nrog ib yam dab tsi, ces koj yuav tsum puag.

7. Txoj cai yuav poob los ntawm kev hais ib yam thiab ua lwm yam.

Kuv tsis tau ua qhov no thiab kuv tsis qhia koj. Poob kev hwm ntawm ib tug hluas txhais tau tias tsuas yog ib yam - koj yuav tsis tau txais yam koj xav tau los ntawm nws. Nws yuav tsis hnov koj, thiab tsis qhia ib yam dab tsi tseem ceeb thiab yuav nrhiav tau ib tug neeg uas koj ntseeg tau sai heev.

8. Yog tsis muaj kev ua si sab nraum zoov txhua hnub nyob rau hauv cov huab cua ntshiab, koj yuav tau txais ib tug nyuaj capricious me nyuam.

Tsis muaj cov menyuam yaus yooj yim hauv cov chaw nyob, lawv txhua tus nyuaj nyob ntawd. Tej zaum thaum ib los yog ob, koj tseem tuaj yeem ua siab ntev, tab sis thaum koj muaj 12 tus txiv neej los ntawm 6 txog 12 xyoos pib dhuav koj, koj tuaj yeem nres tswj qhov xwm txheej ntawm ib pliag, thiab xav tias muaj teeb meem. Yog tias huab cua tsis zoo thiab peb tsis mus taug kev, kuv ib txwm tau txais kev cawmdim los ntawm kab lus "Zoo, koj ntawm leej twg yuav nyem tawm ntxiv?" los yog "Kuv xav tias leej twg yog tus muaj zog tshaj hauv peb pab pawg?" Tom qab 30 feeb ntawm kev thawb-ups, zaum-ups, thiab lwm yam, kuv cov tomboys tau txaus siab nyeem phau ntawv ntsiag to.

9. Cov noob caj noob ces yog ib qho muaj zog, tab sis qhov kev mloog zoo thiab txoj hauv kev rau kev kawm yuav muaj zog dua li nws.

Thaum kuv ua hauj lwm nrog cov ntxhais ntawm pawg nruab nrab, uas yog, los ntawm 6 mus rau 12 xyoo, ib tug ntxhais nag xob nag cua tuaj rau peb ib hnub. Nws cov plaub hau raug txiav kom haum rau ib tug me nyuam tub, nws cov hniav pem hauv ntej tau ploj lawm, thiab feem ntau nws zoo li ib tug hluas nkauj. Nws tsuas yog rub tawm, koj tsis tuaj yeem tso lwm txoj hauv kev, nws tau tsav cov menyuam yaus thiab cov neeg laus vwm, thiab nws tus kheej tsuas yog 6 xyoo xwb. Muaj hluav taws kub hnyiab hauv nws lub qhov muag, thiab kev ua si sab nraum zoov tsis pab ntau, ua siab ncaj. Tau kawg, thaum lub sij hawm, nws txiav nws tus kheej me ntsis, tab sis tag nrho tib yam ces txhua leej txhua tus hais - noob caj noob ces, lawv hais tias, tsis muaj dab tsi yuav tsum tau ua, nws yug los ib tug hooligan, thiab yuav nyob twj ywm ib tug hooligan. Thiab tom qab qee lub sij hawm nws raug coj mus rau ib tsev neeg tu. Thiab ib xyoos tom qab, ntawm ib tug ntawm cov matinees, tus ntxhais no ua raws li ib tug qhua. Kuv tsis paub nws tam sim ntawd. Nws yog ib tug neeg txawv. Ib tug me ntsis, siab mos siab muag, zoo zoo thiab coj zoo me ntsis nco uas rau siab ntso nyeem ib zaj paj huam. Xws li cov thawj coj tau tshwm sim nyob rau hauv peb cov phab ntsa, nws tsuas yog hais tias cov menyuam yaus tshwj xeeb tshaj plaws yuav tsum tau siv sijhawm me ntsis ntxiv thiab saib xyuas, uas, alas, tsis yog ib txwm ua tau nyob rau hauv cov xwm txheej ntawm cov kws qhia ntawv hloov peb zaug hauv ib hnub.

Ua si nrog cov menyuam yaus, qhia lawv cov dag, braiding lawv braids, mloog lawv cov teeb meem, daws lawv cov teeb meem - tag nrho cov no yog kuv txoj hauj lwm, txawm hais tias qhov no tsis tau sau rau hauv cov lus piav qhia txoj haujlwm. Muaj qhov uas kuv yuav tsum ua homework nrog lawv, saib xyuas lawv kev noj qab haus huv thiab feem ntau ua tiav cov sijhawm.

Kev loj hlob ib tug me nyuam yog ib txoj kev tseem ceeb tshaj li kev khwv nyiaj. Yog tias koj muaj sijhawm ua haujlwm, tab sis tsis muaj sijhawm rau txhua yam tseem ceeb me me no, ces nrhiav lub zog los lees rau koj tus kheej tias koj tsuas yog tus neeg ua lag luam xwb.

Kev noj zaub mov zoo, hnav khaub ncaws zoo thiab tuaj koom ntau ntu, cov menyuam yaus tuaj yeem nyob hauv cov chaw zov menyuam ntsuag. Tsis txhob hnov qab muab koj qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws - kev hlub, kev saib xyuas thiab kev saib xyuas.

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