Cov neeg laus txog menyuam yaus. Ntu 1

2024 Tus sau: Seth Attwood | [email protected]. Kawg hloov kho: 2023-12-16 16:06

Cov kab lus ntawm peb cov neeg nyeem hais txog lub ntsiab lus ntawm kev yug me nyuam, uas cuam tshuam rau feem ntau. Yuav ua li cas distorted txheej txheem niaj hnub no? Hauv txoj kev twg koj tuaj yeem tiv thaiv kev hloov pauv ntawm cov menyuam yaus mus rau tsiaj? Koj yuav pab tau koj tus menyuam li cas los ua neeg tiag?

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Qhov koj ua tsis tau rau menyuam yaus

Thawj yog ua tsis tau. Koj tsis tuaj yeem "muab" koj txoj kev npau suav hauv menyuam yaus; ua kom nws txhais tau tias kom ua tiav koj lub hom phiaj. Feem ntau cov neeg laus sim coj tus menyuam txoj kev ntshaw rau qhov lawv tus kheej npau suav txog, thiab qhov lawv tus kheej tsis tau ua hauv lub neej. Peb yuav tsum nco ntsoov tias tus me nyuam muaj nws txoj haujlwm ntawm lub neej, txoj hmoo, uas nws yuav tsum ua kom tiav, thiab cov txiaj ntsig uas nws yuav tsum ua tiav. Hloov qhov kev pab cuam no los ntawm cov neeg laus nrog lawv tus kheej yog kev ua phem rau tus menyuam thiab yog fraught nrog cov tshiab karma rau cov niam txiv.

Lub luag haujlwm ntawm cov niam txiv yog los pab tus menyuam nrhiav nws txoj haujlwm thiab tsim kom muaj peev xwm ua tau raws li nws

Qhov thib ob yog ua tsis tau. Qhov teeb meem ntawm peb lub sijhawm yog lub computer. Cov niam txiv thaum ntxov, qee zaum thaum muaj hnub nyoog 3 xyoos, sim qhia lawv cov menyuam hauv computer, feem ntau qhia qhov no nrog cov lus zoo li "nws mus kawm ntawv, txhua tus menyuam yaus nyob ntawd, lawv paub siv computer, kuv tus menyuam yuav qis dua.”los yog “tam sim no yog lub sijhawm zoo li no” thiab … plam tus menyuam mus rau lwm qhov, "tsim", raws li lawv ntseeg (thiab ntau zaus, tua), kev ua si.

Qhov tseeb, tau kawg, cov niam txiv (tshwj xeeb tshaj yog ib leej niam) hauv qhov no feem ntau ua raws li lub hom phiaj - kom tus menyuam "tsis cuam tshuam" nrog lawv "ua lag luam". Nws yog qhov yooj yim heev thaum tus me nyuam tsis thab rau 2-3 teev, ua si tus kheej, nws yooj yim heev kom tso nws nrog lub computer thiab pog, thiab mus ua haujlwm, mus rau phooj ywg lossis lwm qhov chaw.

Lub khoos phis tawj, ntawm chav kawm, tsis yog los liam rau qhov tseeb tias cov niam txiv "tsis khoom" siv nws li no, tab sis peb nco ntsoov tias txawm li cas los xij ntawm kev siv ruam thiab siv ntau dhau, qhov tsis zoo ntawm lub computer. ntau ntxivtshaj pluses.

Lawv paub - los ntawm cov teeb meem nrog lub cev noj qab haus huv ntawm tus me nyuam mus rau kev puas siab puas ntsws dependence thiab paj hlwb puas

Ib tug menyuam yaus, feem ntau zaum ntawm lub khoos phis tawj, tsuas yog "tawg" kev sib txuas lus nrog cov phooj ywg thiab nrog rau lwm tus neeg, tsim kev sib cais, cais tawm ntawm lub neej tiag tiag, thiab feem ntau, ntxiv rau, kev tso cai, impulsivity, aggression computer thiab "A- social" networks.

Peb pom zoo kom cov niam txiv tsis txhob qhia (lossis tsis qhia txhua) lawv cov menyuam hnub nyoog qis dua 6-7 xyoos nrog lub computer. Raws li qhov chaw kawg: cov menyuam yaus cov yeeb yaj kiab thiab cov duab kos duab - yog, duab - yog, tab sis kev ua si - tsis yog.

Thiab ntseeg kuv! - Thaum tsis muaj lub khoos phis tawj, cov menyuam yaus loj hlob ntau dua thiab hloov mus rau lub neej. Nws tau raug sim, suav nrog ntawm kuv tus kheej txoj kev ua neej thiab kev paub ntawm ntau tsev neeg

Kuv lees tias lawv yuav rov sib cav thiab nrog kuv tham - tab sis kev ua si txhim kho, thiab kuv yuav hais tias: lwm tus kuj txhim kho, Tsis siv computer ua si - thiab zoo dua. Thiab ib qho ntxiv: txoj hauv kev mus rau ntuj txiag teb tsaus yog ua tiav nrog lub hom phiaj zoo - qhia kev tsim, tsim ib yam dab tsi, sib txuas lus, koj yuav tsum hlub hauv qhov tiag, tsis yog hauv ntiaj teb virtual.

Los ntawm txoj kev, koj tsis tas yuav mus deb rau cov piv txwv ntawm kev quav tshuaj hauv computer thiab cov neuroses tshwm sim - muaj ntau yam ntawm lawv tib yam hauv Internet. Ntawm qhov tod tes, kuv paub ib tug me nyuam tub 5-6 xyoo uas yuav cuam tshuam rau nws pog thiab niam thiab pov ib lub rooj zaum me nyuam rau kuv thaum nws lub computer raug muab tshem tawm los yog muab tua. Hmoov zoo, peb tau tswj xyuas qhov xwm txheej ntawd nyob rau lub sijhawm, tsis tu ncua, rov maj mam, los ntawm lub computer thiab txwv lub sijhawm siv nrog nws.

Thaum peb ntsib nrog peb cov xeeb ntxwv, tam sim no peb ua si lwm yam kev ua si - checkers, dominoes, me nyuam bingo, chess, thiab lwm yam. Yog, yog, tib lub sijhawm peb kawm suav, thiab xav, thiab nco ntsoov.

Qhov thib peb yog ua tsis tau. Tiv thaiv menyuam yaus los ntawm kev ua yeeb yaj kiab Asmeskas thiab cov duab tas luav (tsis yog tag nrho), tshwj xeeb tshaj yog los ntawm kev ua yeeb yaj kiab, neeg hlau, zombies thiab lwm yam dab phem.

Cov menyuam yaus (thiab peb cov xeeb ntxwv ntawm lub sijhawm) ua si neeg hlau, lawv paub zoo txog zombies, vampires, monsters, kab laug sab-txiv neej, nas, "sib ntaus" kom zoo … Qhov kev tawm tsam no tuaj qhov twg? Ua siab ncaj, ua li cas koj thiaj tsis nco qab txog kev sib cav nyob mus ib txhis ntawm ob lub tswv yim - Lub teeb thiab qhov tsaus ntuj.

Lub sophisticated creativity thiab devilish ingenuity ntawm lub strategists ntawm sab laug, puas tis "ntseeg" L … Lawv cov neeg sawv cev los ntawm cov "muaj tswv yim txawj ntse" tau kawm los ua tsis ncaj ncees thiab ncaj ncees raws li yav dhau los, thiab mus kom ze rau qhov kev pab cuam ntawm cov menyuam yaus nyob deb, siv cov txheej txheem ntawm cov ntaub ntawv-kev puas siab puas ntsws tsov rog …

Thiab muaj cov cartoons xws li "Monsters on Vacation" lossis cov yeeb yaj kiab zoo li "Saga." Twilight "los yog "Transformers", thiab lwm yam, qhov twg ntau yam monsters, vampires, werewolves, thiab lwm yam. nthuav tawm zoo nkauj, hlub, dawb huv, zoo thiab lom zem creatures, thiab "zoo" neeg hlau (tsis zoo li cov neeg phem los ntawm cov yeeb yaj kiab "Matrix") yog phooj ywg nrog menyuam yaus thiab pab lub ntiaj teb, tab sis tib lub sijhawm lawv tua thiab tua. Nws hloov tawm nthuav dav - ib txwm ua rau cov cim phem ua tau zoo (raws li lawv tuaj yeem ua tau), thiab muaj ob peb lub teeb pom kev zoo tiag tiag.

Cov menyuam yaus feem ntau nco ntsoov nrog cov duab, thiab nws yog qhov ua tau kom kos ib daim duab uas yuav ua tau zoo thiab kov yeej tus neeg phem, lawv yuav tsum ua tsis zoo, raug mob (cov yeeb yaj kiab zoo li "Lub Tsev Ib Leeg"), dag, ntaus, tua thiab tua., lwm. lwm.

Lub voj voog lossis, theej, tib neeg square tau kaw - kov yeej kev phem los ntawm kev ua phem, kev ua phem tau ua dua. Lub hauv paus ntsiab lus kev puas tsuaj (raws li qhov tsis zoo ntawm Vajtswv cov lus txib) yeej nrog txhua qhov kev tshwm sim tshwm sim nyob rau hauv daim ntawv ntawm cov teeb meem niaj hnub no thiab cov neeg laus hauv peb lub neej.

Los yog nqa lub tsheb "tsis muaj txim" tas luav. Tsis muaj dab tsi li ntawd. Tab sis dua MA-SHI-NY (!) - technocracy. Robots ua si tib neeg lub neej, caum kev vam meej (los ntawm lo lus), qee zaum, ntawm txoj kev, ua qhov zoo (zoo, nws yuav tsum tau meej meej rau cov neeg txawj ntse vim li cas). Cov menyuam yaus tom qab no tas luav en masse "mob" nrog tsheb thiab pheej xav kom lawv yuav tsheb tshiab. Koj xav tias yuav ua li cas rau lawv thaum muaj hnub nyoog?

Los ntawm txoj kev, rau qee qhov laj thawj, hauv ntau cov duab kos duab sab hnub poob (puas yog lawv tsis mloog?) Muaj ntau lub fuss thiab chaotic txav, cov cim feem ntau hais lus tsis zoo thiab pheej qw nrov nrov …

Ces peb cov me nyuam qw

Thiab muaj ntau yam piv txwv ntawm cov yeeb yaj kiab thiab cov duab kos duab.

Zoo, leej twg xav tau nws kom lub siab nco qab ntawm cov menyuam yaus txij li thaum yau pib hloov pauv ntawm cov qauv ib txwm muaj ntawm kev nkag siab ntawm qhov zoo thiab qhov phem mus rau sab ntawm kev phem, thiab kev tsis meej pem ntawm cov ntsiab lus no thiab lawv cov ntsiab lus tshwm sim?.

Yog li ntawd tom qab ntawd, thaum ib tug neeg tau dhau los ua neeg laus, nws tuaj yeem muab cov ntaub ntawv hauv qab no: qhov kev phem ntawd tsis muaj, xws li, qhov no yog qhov teeb meem ntawm kev pom thiab pom lub ntiaj teb tsuas yog los ntawm tus kheej xwb, nws yog qhov tsim nyog. kom txav deb ntawm duality, tias yuav tsum muaj kev zam txim, uas, thaum kawg, Cov Lus Cog Tseg tau dhau mus, thiab Khetos feem ntau yog tus cwj pwm mythical, thiab lwm yam. Tsis yog li ntawd?.. Qhov no yog li cas lub hauv paus crumble tib neeg kev vam meej! Qhov no yog li cas cov stereotypes ntawm tib neeg tus cwj pwm tsim nyog rau "ib tug neeg" raug tso. Ntawm chav kawm, nws yog yooj yim dua rau nteg lawv nyob rau hauv thaum yau, yog li hais lus, nqus lawv nrog niam cov kua mis.

Ib tug yuav hais tias: schizophrenia! Kuv yuav teb tias: saib kom tob dua, pom qhov ua rau tsis muaj dab tsi tshwm sim hauv ntiaj teb no. Tsawg tsawg yuav tsis lees paub tias peb lub neej tau hloov pauv ntau dhau los 20-30 xyoo dhau los, thiab kom meej meej tsis yog qhov zoo dua - tsis yog lub luag haujlwm tsawg kawg hauv qhov no, raws li ib qho ntawm cov cuab yeej cuam tshuam rau Russia, tau ua si los ntawm Asmeskas TV thiab kev lag luam yeeb yaj kiab..

Kuv tus kheej, los ntawm kuv tus kheej piv txwv, qee yam tau khiav mus rau qhov teeb meem thaum kuv cov xeeb ntxwv tuaj rau hnub so. Peb sim saib nrog lawv qee qhov "laus" hits, piv txwv li, "Mowgli" lossis "Zoo, tos ib pliag!", kuj tau ua hauv USSR.

Saib mus nrog nyuaj. Cov menyuam yaus (5-7 xyoos) tsis nkag siab cov ntsiab lus ntawm kev vam meej kev sib raug zoo ntawm tib neeg thiab xwm txheej lossis lub ntsiab lus ntawm kev khiav ntawm hare thiab hma yam tsis muaj kev sib ntaus sib tua, tua, ntshav, qw, thiab lwm yam. Lawv tau xav paub ntau ntxiv txog kev saib cov yeeb yaj kiab xws li "Transformers" lossis Harry Potter, thiab muaj "thov kom" tso cov "tsim". Kuv yuav tsum tawm hws thawj zaug, piav qhia lub ntsiab lus ntawm "Mowgli", thiab txhais ua lus niaj hnub. Hauv qhov no kuv, incl. pab "Mowgli" Disney version, peb yuav tsum lees tias cov lus hais tau hloov pauv ntau yam tsis ntev los no. Thiab tom qab ntawd kuv cov me nyuam thiab kuv "nrhiav" Russia rau lawv, tsis yog Asmeskas, thiab peb "Heroes" nrog tag nrho lawv cov yeeb yaj kiab, "Masha thiab Xyooj", cov laus, tab sis kub, "Vovka nyob rau hauv lub tebchaws nyob deb", "Fedorino kev tu siab”, “Cov Dab Neeg ntawm Vaj Ntxwv Soltan”, thiab lwm yam.

Peb tau saib maj mam (vim hauv peb cov duab tas luav tseem muaj feem ntau lub ntsiab lus), piav qhia qee qhov xwm txheej thiab teb cov menyuam cov lus nug "thiab?". Qee lub sij hawm lawv nres saib thiab rov ua qee cov ntsiab lus dua tom qab kev sib tham. Cov menyuam yaus nyiam qhov kev sib tham kom ntxaws, thiab lawv txawm sib tw uas yuav piav qhia lub ntsiab lus ntawm qhov lawv tau pom, leej twg to taub dab tsi thiab yuav ua li cas.

Thiab tam sim no cov xeeb ntxwv tab tom ua si tus phab ej thiab, kuv pom, tsawg kawg ntawm kuv lub xub ntiag (zoo, pib, thiab qhov no twb zoo lawm), cov menyuam yaus tau mob siab rau hloov cov clichés los ntawm kev lag luam yeeb yaj kiab thiab TV xws li "nws yuav tsum yog. tua../ cia tua lawv../Kuv yuav tua nws "rau lwm tus uas cov lus no tsis yog …

Tau kawg, ob peb lub lis piam ntawm kev mus xyuas, peb tsis quav ntsej cov qauv zoo sab hnub poob ntawm cov duab kos duab (vim lawv muaj lawv ib yam nkaus. J, txij li thaum, tau kawg, muaj cov creators ntawm qhov zoo ntawm ob sab ntawm "pem hauv ntej") xws li "Keepers of Dreams" los yog "Alice in Wonderland".

Nyob rau hauv dav dav, ua ntej yuav qhia ib tug me nyuam ib tug tas luav los yog zaj duab xis, ib tug neeg laus yuav tsum tau ua kom paub tseeb tias nws yog dab tsi, dab tsi yog lub tswv yim ntawm no cartoon / zaj duab xis, dab tsi lub hauv paus ntsiab lus nws nteg, dab tsi lub hom phiaj nws caum - tsis muaj cov qauv no, tsis muaj cartoons., cov yeeb yaj kiab, phau ntawv, lossis kos duab tsis tshwm sim txhua qhov! Hnov, yog koj tsis dig muag lossis lag ntseg - nws tsis tshwm sim

Thiab koj tsis tau xyuam xim rau dab tsi, koj cov me nyuam hais lus dab tsi? Nws xav tias lawv tuaj qhov twg?.. Cov menyuam yaus nco qab cov duab thiab cov qauv ua neej nyob

Lwm qhov teeb meem nrog TV yog kev tshaj tawm. Ntau tus menyuam yaus (thiab qee tus neeg laus) saib nws zoo li yog spellbound. Tom qab ntawd lawv hais li ntawd, vim lawv lub hlwb nruj nruj nrog qhov kev tshaj tawm no.

Qee cov niam txiv tig rau TV rau lawv cov menyuam ntau zaus raws li lub computer (kom tsis txhob cuam tshuam los ntawm kev ua haujlwm), thiab lawv - menyuam - saib txhua yam.

Peb pom zoo kom koj ua raws li kev txiav txim siab niam txiv censorship txhua yam uas koj cov menyuam yaus (los ntawm 3 txog 8 xyoo) saib hauv TV, vim nws tsis yog rau tsis muaj dab tsi uas TV tau nce hu ua "zombie box" tsis ntev los no

Cov hauj lwm ntawm destructors (cov neeg uas muaj kev puas tsuaj, kev puas tsuaj ideology) hauv TV muaj zog heev L … Nws tsis yog tsis muaj laj thawj uas Duma tau thov kom muaj hnub nyoog txwv rau hauv cov qhab nia ntawm cov yeeb yaj kiab. Tab sis cov kev ntsuas ib nrab no tsis pab ntau, vim tias leej twg ntawm cov niam txiv tsis khoom, lossis qee zaum "poob" hauv peb lub ntiaj teb vwm ntawm pog yawg, saib cov kev txwv no?

Peb tawm tswv yim tsis tsuas yog suav nrog niam txiv censorship (hauv kev nkag siab zoo ntawm lo lus) hais txog "xiav, dawb thiab cov ntxaij vab tshaus digital", tab sis kuj txwv lub sij hawm cov me nyuam zaum pem hauv ntej ntawm ntau yam "lub thawv". Cia peb xa mus rau "lub thawv" thiab qhov kev ua tiav kawg ntawm cov neeg tsim khoom siv thev naus laus zis - iPhones, ntsiav tshuaj, thiab lwm yam. yam me me , tsim, ntawm lwm yam, nyob rau hauv thiaj li yuav raus rau peb thiab peb cov me nyuam nyob rau hauv virtual kev muaj tiag ntev li ntev tau.

Yog li ntawd, peb xav kom cov niam txiv ib zaug ntxiv lub luag haujlwm rau kev loj hlob ntawm lawv cov menyuam thiab tsim kom muaj kev nco qab thiab cov hauv paus ntsiab lus ntawm lawv tus cwj pwm. Koj yuav tsum tau nkag siab thiab nkag siab cov lus nrov hais tias "Cov menyuam yaus yog peb lub neej yav tom ntej!", lub neej yav tom ntej tsis yog koj li, tab sis peb lub tebchaws.

Piv txwv li, hauv peb lub tsev nyob rau lub caij ntuj sov, thaum peb cov xeeb ntxwv tuaj xyuas peb, peb pom thaum noj tshais lossis pluas su tias thaum lub TV qhib, cov menyuam yaus noj nrog lawv ob lub qhov muag ntawm lub vijtsam, thiab lawv txoj kev xav nyob deb ntawm zaub mov. Yog li ntawd, thawj qhov kev txwv yog - tua lub TV Thaum tag nrho cov pluas noj, qhov thib ob - tua lub TV raws li qhov paub keeb kwm yav dhau los nrog cov xwm txheej niaj hnub txhua hnub.

Thiab qhov no nrog koj li cas?

Qhov plaub yog ua tsis tau. Yog koj xav tsa koj tus menyuam kom hlub koj thiab lwm tus, koj TSIS TXHOB (!) tso siab rau hauv kindergarten lossis tsev kawm ntawv, tso siab rau koj cov menyuam rau cov tsev kawm ntawv no.

Koj yuav tsum faib sijhawm thiab saib xyuas koj tus menyuam tus kheej: ua haujlwm nrog nws, ua si nrog nws (nrog rau kev ua si ua si uas xav tau), kos duab, kos duab, tsim, sib tham txog cov xwm txheej uas tau tshwm sim hauv nws lub neej, saib yeeb yaj kiab thiab nyeem dab neeg dab neeg. Cia nws tsuas yog 1 lossis 2 teev hauv ib hnub, tab sis nrog 100% rov qab los rau nws, tsis muaj kev cuam tshuam ntxiv. Yog li, piv txwv li, ib tug neeg zoo qhia kuv thaum kuv qhia nws tias kuv tsis khoom thiab kuv tsis muaj sijhawm txaus. Txoj cai lij choj thoob ntiaj teb ntawm kev sib raug zoo-thiab-zoo hais tias: koj faib, nqis peev sijhawm - koj yuav muab sijhawm rau yav tom ntej. Francis ntawm Assisi nyeem hauv ib qho ntawm nws cov lus thov: "Rau leej twg muab, nws tau txais, leej twg tsis nco qab nws tus kheej, nws tau txais …". Qhov no yog ib feem ntawm Txoj Cai Kev Txiav Txim Siab uas Khetos tau hais txog.

Nyob rau tib lub sij hawm, ib tug tsis tuaj yeem qhuav nrog ib tug me nyuam - qhov no yog ib qho teeb meem tshwm sim rau ntau tus niam txiv - lawv dryness, callousness, alienation. Qhov no provokes, raws li txoj cai lij choj ntawm qhov tshwm sim, thiab nyob rau hauv tus me nyuam - dryness, callousness, alienation.

Peb txhua tus yuav tsum kawm kom hlub nrog peb lub siab, delve rau hauv, mloog, saib xyuas thiab ua tsaug! Feem ntau koj yuav tsum hais tias: "Kuv hlub koj", ces koj tus menyuam yuav hais rau koj: "Kuv hlub koj."

Ua siab ncaj, nws zoo nkauj heev thiab kov thaum tus me nyuam muaj 5 xyoos, tom qab sib tham hauv xov tooj, hais rau koj: "Kuv hlub koj niam../ txiv../ yawg…".

Tab sis muaj lwm yam huab - cia txhua yam thiab pamper koj tus me nyuam, indulge nws whims. Tsis ntev los no, tus tsim me ego yuav zaum ntawm koj lub caj dab, thiab yav tom ntej nws yuav tsim teeb meem loj rau nws tus kheej thiab rau koj. Qhov zoo tshaj plaws, Saint-Exupery tau hais txog qhov sib npaug ntawm kev hlub hauv "Tus Tub Vaj Ntxwv Me", qhov no yog ib zaj dab neeg hais txog ib lub hnub qub uas hlub heev:

5. Koj cem tsis tau ib tug me nyuam vim nws lub siab phem los yog nws tus kheej incontinence, los yog, tsis to taub yog vim li cas rau tus txiv neej, koj qw tsis tau tsis yog ntawm tus me nyuam xwb, tab sis kuj npaj showdown scenes nrog tus poj niam / txiv / niam / txiv thiab lwm cov txheeb ze nyob rau hauv pem hauv ntej ntawm tus me nyuam, uas, hmoov tsis, feem ntau tshwm sim nyob rau hauv lub neej txhua hnub.

Universal Law of Learning, khaws los ntawm kev puas siab puas ntsws niaj hnub, hais tias: menyuam yaus (thiab tib neeg, tshwj xeeb) yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws ntawm kev nco qab thiab tsis ua li lawv hais, tab sis cov neeg hais lus lawv tus kheej ua li cas, i.e. tej me nyuam pom. Li no qhov kev qhia zoo tshaj plaws los ntawm kev piv txwv.

Yog li koj yuav tsum xav txog qhov piv txwv uas peb muab rau koj, uas yog niam txiv, hauv qee qhov xwm txheej niaj hnub. Tsis ntev los no kuv tau saib ib qho piv txwv ntawm lub tsheb npav - ib tug niam hluas pib tawm ntawm qhov chaw nres tsheb npav thiab maj nrawm rau nws tus tub, txog tsib lossis rau rau xyoo, txawm hais tias, kom ncaj ncees, tsis muaj qhov yuav tsum tau maj. Tus me nyuam pib nce saum lub rooj zaum, ntog thiab poob. Txhawm rau pab nws, muab tes rau nws, lossis tsawg kawg los txhawb nws hais lus, tab sis kuv niam tau pib qw rau nws, cem qhov tseeb tias nws ua tau txawv txawv thiab "ua si dua".

Feem ntau cov niam qw hais tias tus me nyuam zoo li "mus tsis tau", los yog "tsis ntsia hauv qab nws txhais taw", los yog ntog thiab "tau nws lub ris qias neeg", thiab lwm yam. lwm. Ib txhia kuj ntaus ib tug me nyuam rau ib lub nyiaj ntawm txoj kev - kev pom kev qias neeg thiab kev puas siab puas ntsws loj heev! Nws tsis yooj yim rau kev xav - thiab yog tias niam lossis txiv zoo li no tau raug ntaus ntawm txoj kev hauv pej xeem ntawm lawv tus kheej cov menyuam, lawv yuav xav li cas?..

Rau qee qhov laj thawj, qee zaum ntseeg tias qhov kev npau taws no tuaj yeem ua rau menyuam yaus, lawv hais tias, "nws tseem yog menyuam yaus"! Feem ntau cov niam txiv no kuj chim: “Tsis txhob cuam tshuam! Nov yog kuv tus menyuam!” Xav txog nws, lawv hais txog vaj tse. Tsis paub dab tsi qus, tsis tswj los ntawm txoj cai lij choj hauv Russia.

Kuv xav nug: puas yog lub ris tiag tiag kim dua li yav tom ntej kev puas siab puas ntsws, thiab txawm tias kev mob hlwb ntawm koj tus tub lossis tus ntxhais?

Kuv kuj paub txog tej xwm txheej zoo li no thaum ib tug me nyuam tub muaj 3 xyoos raug nws niam nws txiv cem cem nws lub ris. Tus me nyuam pib nkaum hauv qab rooj, nyob rau hauv txhua lub ces kaum ntawm chav tsev, thaum nws xav mus rau hauv chav dej, thiab quaj, thiab tseem pooped nyob rau hauv nws lub ris, thiab ntshai qhov no. Nws tau pom tias nws cem quav rau ob peb hnub, thiab tom qab ntawd nws tsuas tuaj yeem txwv tsis pub nws tus kheej.

Qhov xwm txheej no raug kho los ntawm kev hlub thiab kev pab kho mob uas tsim nyog. Tab sis cov niam txiv ib txwm muaj lawv tus kheej txhais tes yuav luag tsim kom muaj kev puas siab puas ntsws nyuaj rau lawv tus tub vim tsis muaj peev xwm mloog tus menyuam, xav txog qhov nws hais, nug, nws yws txog dab tsi.

Ib qho teeb meem loj niaj hnub no yog kev kawm tsis paub txog kev xav / kev xav ntawm ntau tus niam txiv thiab lawv cov haiv neeg nyob mus ib txhis ntawm kev ua haujlwm, thaum tsis muaj kev saib xyuas zoo rau lawv cov menyuam thiab tsis muaj sijhawm los mloog lawv.

Kuv pom zoo li no: nyob rau hauv lub zos, lawv tshem lub txiv mis los ntawm tag nrho cov 4 log ntawm lub tsheb ob zaug nyob rau hauv ib lub lis piam. Thaum kawg, peb tau tswj hwm tus menyuam yaus - nws, ntawm chav kawm, laus dua (qib 5) dua li cov uas peb tau sau txog hauv tsab xov xwm no, tab sis me me hauv qhov loj thiab me me. Txij li thaum tus tub hluas tau dag txog nws qhov chaw nyob (tseem ceeb, nws ntshai nws niam nws txiv), peb coj nws mus kawm ntawv. Tus "xibfwb" tau txheeb xyuas tus tub sai sai thiab, nyob rau hauv pem hauv ntej ntawm txhua tus hauv chav kawm ntawm tus kws qhia ntawv, pib nrov nrov, tig mus qw, txham tus tub, ntawm txoj kev qhia peb tag nrho "qhov tseeb" txog nws, qhov no yog "feem ntau. disgraceful nyob rau hauv tag nrho lub tsev kawm ntawv, hais tias nws "twb yuav tsum tau muab xa mus rau tub ceev xwm." hais tias nws tsis mloog, coj cwj pwm disgustingly, thiab lwm yam. lwm. Kuv hais kom nws nres thiab hais kom tus menyuam tham nrog kuv tus kheej.

Kev sib tham luv luv:

- Kuv puas tau ua ib yam dab tsi phem tag nrho, tsis yog?

Tus tub nod taub hau tsis zoo.

- Thiab yog vim li cas koj ho ua phem rau kuv 2 zaug lawm?.. Kuv tsis muaj qhov yuav cov txiv mis no (tsis muaj lub khw hauv zos), Kuv tawm tsis tau hnub no, lub tsheb tseem muaj …

- Kuv tsis paub tias koj tsis muaj lawm.

- HMO. Kuv tsis paub…Kuv muab 8 tug tag nrho…Kuv puas muaj ib lub txiv mis raug cog rau hauv ib lub tawb?.. Ua cas koj xav tau lawv?

- Cov txiv neej thiab kuv hloov.

- Yog. Kuv paub tias koj hloov li cas…koj txo qis qee lub log, tshem tawm qhov cuam tshuam ntawm lwm tus…koj coj li ntawd, koj ua phem rau tib neeg, thiab koj tsis paub … Koj puas tau hnov zoo li ntawd? ib lo lus?

Tus menyuam nod taub hau.

- Yog li koj ua, zoo li "tsis paub." Yuav ua li cas rau koj, lawv qhia koj kom muab rau tub ceev xwm…Tom qab ntawd, tej zaum koj yuav paub …

- Tsis txhob ua txiv ntxawm, kuv niam yuav ntaus kuv.

- Thiab koj xav li cas?

- Kuv yuav rov qab txhua yam rau koj.

- Thaum twg?

- Tag kis, tom qab kawm ntawv.

“Thiab koj yuav tsis tshem tawm ib qho ntxiv, txoj cai?

Tom qab ntawd tus "xib fwb" cuam tshuam: "Tsis txhob ntseeg nws, nws ib txwm dag, nws yuav tsis muab dab tsi tam sim ntawd - qhov no yog ib tug neeg dag ntxias!"

Tab sis kuv hais khov kho tias: "Zoo, vim li cas, kuv ntseeg nws, vim nws tus kheej tau hais nws, txoj cai?"

Tus tub nod taub hau.

- Thiab yog hais tias tus me nyuam hais - tus me nyuam ua, txoj cai? Tus txiv neej lo lus!

Tus tub nod taub hau dua.

- Yog li thaum twg koj yuav coj nws?

- Tag kis…

- Lub sijhawm twg?

- Tom qab kawm ntawv…

- Okay.

Kuv hais ntxiv tias: “Kuv ntseeg cov ntawd. Yog li peb pom zoo. Cia peb mus!" - thiab rau tus kws qhia - "Tsis xav tau tub ceev xwm." Tus "xibfwb" ntsia kuv rau siab ntso thiab khuv xim, thiab txawm muaj peev xwm qw ib yam dab tsi tom qab tus tub, hem nrog kev rau txim ntau dua.

Hnub tom qab tus menyuam tuaj txog thiab nqa tag nrho cov txiv mis thiab lub kaus mom, ua siab ncaj, thiab ntxiv. Kuv qhuas nws uas ua raws li nws tej lus thiab cia nws mus tsev.

Tab sis hnub tom qab nws niam tau coj nws los rau kuv dua, hais tias nws tau qhia txhua yam los ntawm tsev kawm ntawv, thiab yog li ntawd nws thiaj li tuaj xyuas seb nws puas muaj dab tsi tshwm sim thiab seb nws tus tub puas muab khoom rau kuv. Zoo li nws hais rau nws tias nws muab, tab sis nws tsis ntseeg, nws xav tias nws dag.

Kuv tsuas yog muab kuv txhais tes xwb…Zoo, tom qab tag nrho, leej twg, cia ib leeg me nyuam, ib tug neeg laus, raug ntaus, kaw kiag li

Qhov no yog qhov tshwm sim hauv kev xyaum nrog ntau tus menyuam. Feem ntau cov niam txiv tsis quav ntsej lawv tus kheej muab lawv txhais tes rau yav tom ntej teeb meem ntawm lawv cov menyuam, thiab lwm tus kws qhia ntawv tsis muaj qhov "rudiment ntawm kev nkag siab ntawm kev kawm". tu siab heev.

6. Koj tsis tuaj yeem muab tshuaj rau menyuam yaus thaum lub sijhawm txias, tshwj tsis yog nyob rau hauv cov xwm txheej hnyav, thiab tom qab ntawd - los ntawm cov tshuaj. Nws yuav tsum nco ntsoov tias cov kws kho mob kuj txawv. Nws yog ib qho tsim nyog yuav tau xaiv cov kws kho mob tshwj xeeb uas siv cov kev kho mob me me, sib txuas cov tshuaj (allopathy) nrog homeopathy, tshuaj ntsuab, vitamins. Peb tau dhau los ntawm txhua yam no nrog kuv tus tub xeeb ntxwv, thaum ib leej niam hluas tsis xav mloog dab tsi thiab, es tsis txhob ntxiv dag zog rau lub cev tiv thaiv kab mob nrog cov tshuaj ntsuab thiab cov txheej txheem lub cev tsim nyog, tso siab rau cov tshuaj tua kab mob thiab lwm yam tshuaj ua txuj ci tseem ceeb, thiab siv lawv ntawm thawj cov tsos mob ntawm hnoos thiab ua npaws. Qhov tshwm sim tau khwv tau dysbiosis thiab tom qab kev kho mob mus ntev.

Koj tsis tuaj yeem muab dej rau tus menyuam los ntawm tus kais dej thiab pub nws ntau yam "tshuaj lom", uas yog muag nyob rau hauv peb lub khw, raws li goodies thiab lwm yam goodies. Tsis muaj txoj hauv kev los sau tag nrho cov pseudo-inventions ntawm noob neej nyob rau hauv cov khoom noj khoom haus, lub hom phiaj yog los tsim ib qho kev tiv thaiv thiab, tom qab ntawd, muaj kab mob. Ib kab ntev yuav tig tawm, tab sis peb yuav xaiv cov kev taw qhia lawm.

Cov no yog ntau yam colas, thiab lemonades (xav txog nws! - 8 teaspoons suab thaj ib khob hauv cov dej qab zib no, koj puas yuav muab ntau hauv tshuaj yej?), thiab chips, thiab crackers, thiab ib co yogurts, thiab cov pos hniav, thiab ntau ntau. khoom qab zib (tshwj xeeb yog teeb meem "Snickers" thiab "Mars", thiab lwm yam), thiab khoom noj ceev, thiab lwm yam. lwm

Cov niam txiv yuav tsum txhim kho lawv txoj kev noj zaub mov zoo thiab sim muab lawv cov me nyuam noj zaub, txiv hmab txiv ntoo, cereals, khoom noj siv mis. Peb yuav tsum tau siv los nyeem cov lus sau ntawm cov khoom ntim khoom (qhov chaw tsim khoom tso rau hauv lawv) thiab paub txog cov vitamins thiab microelements tsim nyog rau lub cev. Lub hauv paus ntsiab lus ntawm kev noj haus yog tsawg dua khoom tsim - ntau dua ntuj, tsim los ntawm xwm lossis raws li cov khoom siv raw lossis cov khoom siv

Thiab tau kawg, koj tsis tuaj yeem khaws tus menyuam hauv nroog txhua lub sijhawm, zaum nrog nws hauv 4 phab ntsa, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog nyob rau lub caij ntuj sov. Nws yog ib qho tsim nyog yuav tau taug kev nrog nws mus rau qhov xwm txheej tsis tu ncua, kom nws ua pa thiab taug kev hauv huab cua ntshiab, ua kom lub zog huv. Thaum lub caij ntuj sov, koj yuav tsum xa nws mus rau lub zos los yog mus rau lub caij ntuj sov lub teb chaws camp.

Sab nraum zoov, nyob rau hauv cov huab cua tshiab thiab huv si, dej thiab ecologically huv zaub mov, cov me nyuam muaj zog rau tag nrho lub xyoo.

7. Cov niam txiv feem ntau nug cov lus nug: Puas muaj peev xwm rau txim rau tus menyuam? Ib zaug ntxiv, kuv yuav xa mus, tshwj xeeb, rau zaj dab neeg ntawm A. Saint-Exupery. Cov lus nug tag nrho no haum rau hauv ib lo lus - yog vim li cas? Vim li cas? Koj nrhiav lub hom phiaj twg thaum koj xav rau txim rau ib tug me nyuam? Rau lub hom phiaj ntawm kev kawm - yog, tab sis ntau zaus, nrog lub hom phiaj ntawm kev ntxhov siab rau koj tus cwj pwm, koj qhov kev phem tawm ntawm tus cwj pwm?

Cov menyuam yaus sib txawv, raws li, thiab cov qauv kev kawm txawv. Txoj kev loj hlob zoo tshaj plaws los ntawm koj tus kheej tus yam ntxwv, kev hlub thiab kev sib tham hauv lub siab, qee zaum, nrog rau cov neeg laus. Nws yog qhov tsim nyog yuav tsum tau piav qhia, piav qhia, hais lus, nug thiab mloog ntau dua li kev yuam, yuam, thov.

Tab sis muaj qee lub sij hawm thaum koj yuav tsum tau ua kom khov kho thiab rau txim … Koj tuaj yeem deprive ib yam dab tsi qab ntxiag, qab, koj tuaj yeem zaum ntawm lub rooj zaum (tsis nyob hauv ib lub ces kaum!) Thiab muab xav, koj tuaj yeem tsis kam txais kev thov ntawm qee yam, ntawm qee qhov kev mob siab rau shkodniks koj tuaj yeem tsa koj lub suab thiab ua kom pom qhov hnyav hauv intonation, Nyob rau hauv qhov tshwj xeeb, txhob txwm tshaj tawm thiab rov hais dua pampering, nws tseem tuaj yeem ntaus me ntsis rau ntawm Pope (Kuv paub ib tug me nyuam tub uas pheej rov hais dua qhov no lossis qhov kev ua phem ntawd txhawm rau ua rau tus neeg laus cov lus teb, thiab tsis hnov qab thov kom tsis txhob ua neeg phem., tab sis txawm ntau mischievous).

Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas yuav tsum nco ntsoov tias txawm tias koj npuaj tus menyuam ntawm lub pob tw, koj tseem yuav tsum tau tham, piav qhia, yaum nws txog qhov twg yog qhov zoo thiab qhov phem, txwv tsis pub nws tsis muaj kev nkag siab ntawm kev hais lus, tsuas yog kev phem

Tus kheej, piv txwv li, kuv qhia kuv tus tub xeeb ntxwv, hauv kev teb rau nws qhov kev xav lossis kev ua phem, tias kuv chim heev thiab yuav tsis ua si nrog nws, txawm tias kuv hlub nws heev, thiab nws paub txog nws, tab sis koj tsis tuaj yeem ua phem rau yawg. los yog poj niam thiab tej yam li ntawd.. P. Tus tub xeeb ntxwv qee zaum txawm tias ntau dua (zoo, ntawm chav kawm, nws tab tom sim hais), tab sis kuv tau ua raws li kuv txoj haujlwm thiab ua ntsiag to lossis rov hais dua "Kuv hlub koj" cov txheej txheem. Tom qab ib pliag (3-5 feeb) nws nws tus kheej rushes los puag kuv caj dab.

Tab sis nyob rau hauv txhua rooj plaub, cov me nyuam yuav tsum tsis txhob ntaus thiab degreed

8. Nws yog ua tsis tau saib xyuas tus menyuam ib yam nkaus, tswj nws txhua kauj ruam, txwv tsis pub tiv thaiv nws los ntawm kev ua yuam kev thiab poob. Koj yuav tsum qhia koj tus menyuam tsis yog tsuas yog kom yeej, yeej, tab sis kuj yuav poob, txwv tsis pub kev poob siab hauv kev laus yog lav.

9. Nws ua tsis tau cem tus me nyuam vim nws lub siab phem los yog nws tus kheej incontinence, los yog tsis to taub tag nrho cov yog vim li cas rau tus me nyuam tub. Koj tsis tuaj yeem qw tsis yog ntawm tus menyuam xwb, tab sis kuj tseem npaj cov yeeb yaj kiab nrog koj tus poj niam / tus txiv / niam / txiv thiab lwm tus txheeb ze ntawm tus menyuam, uas, hmoov tsis, feem ntau tshwm sim hauv lub neej txhua hnub.

10. Koj tsis tuaj yeem hais "tsis yog" txhua lub sijhawm. Cov niam txiv yuav tsum kawm hais tias "Yog!" Hauv 99 qhov xwm txheej, thaum lawv feem ntau hais tias "tsis muaj", qhov no tsis muaj lub hauv paus loj, tab sis tsuas yog ua qauv qhia lub zog xwb. Qee lub sij hawm koj pom tias nws nyuaj rau kev lees paub cov menyuam yaus lub zeem muag - vim tias koj tus kheej tau poob nws! Piv txwv li, ib tug me nyuam sim nce ib tsob ntoo - koj yuav ua li cas?.. Hais tsis tau ntxiv? Thiab yog hais tias nws khoov thiab lov ceg?

Muaj ntau "tsis yog" thiab tag nrho cov ntawm lawv tsis tuaj yeem suav sau, tag nrho phau ntawv yuav tsum tau sau. Koj tseem tsis tuaj yeem, piv txwv li:

- Tsis txhob tso cai rau tus menyuam los qhia lawv tus kheej qhov kev xav, uas txawv ntawm koj li, - Tsis txhob tso cai rau qee zaum ua tsis zoo (xws li kev khiav, dhia, qw, txawm hais tias kuv zoo li tau sau txog qhov tsis sib xws tsis ntev los no) - cov menyuam yaus xav tau kev txav mus los, thiab qhov chaw lawv yuav tsum tau tso lawv lub siab thiab lub zog, vim tias lawv muaj ntau dua. hauv cov neeg laus, - Tsis txhob cia tus me nyuam ua yuam kev (xws li ntog, ntog, tsis nco qab, ua tsis ncaj ncees lawm, thiab lwm yam) - nws yuav tsum txhim kho nws tus kheej kev paub txog kev ua yuam kev, - Tsis txhob cia nws tuaj xyuas thiab coj cov qhua tuaj rau koj lub tsev qee zaum - tus menyuam qee zaus luam cov kev ua ntawm ib tug neeg laus hauv ntiaj teb no, tab sis qhov tseem ceeb yog nws yuav tsum tau kawm los tsim kev sib txuas lus nrog lwm tus …

- Koj tsis tuaj yeem hais tias "Ua, Kuv tau hais rau leej twg!", Thiab tsis txhob piav dab tsi tib lub sijhawm. Piav rau koj tus menyuam paub vim li cas rau koj tus cwj pwm. Koom nrog tus menyuam hauv kev txiav txim siab, nrog nws tham. Nws paub tias nyob hauv cov tsev neeg uas cov niam txiv nruj dhau lawm, cov menyuam yaus feem ntau loj hlob tuaj ua nruj ua tsiv, tsis mloog lus, "nyuaj". Lub sijhawm hloov pauv, thiab yog tias ua ntej lub hauv paus ntawm kev coj ncaj ncees yog kev ntshai, tam sim no nws qhov chaw yuav tsum raug coj los ntawm kev hwm.

-Yog li ntawd, koj yuav tsum tsis txhob tso cai rau cov menyuam yaus los thuam koj ntawm cov lus lossis kev ua. Cov menyuam yaus yuav tsum coj zoo rau koj - ob qho tib si vim tias koj yog ib tus neeg, thiab vim tias koj yog leej niam lossis leej txiv, thiab tsis yog nrog koj, tab sis kuj nrog lwm tus neeg laus. Koj feem ntau pom thaum ib tug me nyuam tub muaj 6-8 xyoo hais txog ib tug txiv ntxawm laus los ntawm nws lub npe thiab koj. Dab tsi, nthuav, cov niam txiv puas xav tso qhov kev tso cai no hauv tus menyuam tus cwj pwm? Raws li ib txwm, tsis xav tias yuav muaj dab tsi ntxiv?..

- Cov lus qhuab qhia ntev yuav nyeem tsis tau. Ib qho lus luv luv thiab ruaj khov yog qhov ua tau zoo dua rau tus menyuam dua li tag nrho tantrum los ntawm niam los yog ib tug monologue los ntawm txiv.

- Koj tsis tuaj yeem tau txais tus kheej thaum koj hais lus rau tus menyuam. Nws yog qhov zoo dua los hais tias "Kuv tsis nyiam / kuv tsis nyiam nws thaum koj tawg khob los ntawm qhov kev pabcuam kim" dua li "Koj ua tau txawv txawv (tsis zoo, ruam, thiab lwm yam)".

Thaum kawg, qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog qhov tsis muaj peev xwm tsis tso cai rau kev coj ncaj ncees thiab kev coj ncaj ncees (sab ntsuj plig) rau tus me nyuam txij thaum yau. Nyob rau hauv lwm txoj kev - dab tsi yog qhov zoo thiab dab tsi phem (piv txwv li, raws li nyob rau hauv V. Mayakovsky tus naas ej cov me nyuam paj huam). Txwv tsis pub, txoj kev, kindergarten, tsev kawm ntawv yuav nteg lawv raws li lawv ua tau

Hmoov tsis, ntau zaus tshaj tsis, nws tsis yog. Thiab koj - niam txiv yuav sau los ntawm qhov no, thiab peb yuav cem, raws li ib txwm, tag nrho lwm tus …

Yuav kom kawm paub nkag siab txog yam ua tsis tau rau cov menyuam yaus, thiab ua li cas thiaj ua tau, tus neeg laus yuav tsum tau coj los ntawm nws lub siab thiab lub siab thiab nco ntsoov lub hom phiaj ntawm lub Ntiaj Teb, Vajtswv (txawm tias leej twg muaj mob los ntawm lo lus no) - tias koj tus menyuam tsis yog koj li tiag tiag, thiab yeej tsis yog koj li khoom. Nws yog tus Ntsuj Plig uas tau los rau hauv peb lub ntiaj teb kom tau txais nws cov lus qhia thiab kev cob qhia, thiab lub ntiaj teb tau xaiv koj los ua tus kws qhia ntawv rau tus tub hluas no. Yog li ua pov thawj qhov kev ntseeg no thiab nqis peev nrog tag nrho koj lub siab, tag nrho koj cov txuj ci, tag nrho koj txoj kev ua siab ntev hauv kev loj hlob ntawm tus neeg tshiab.

Yuav tsum tau txuas ntxiv…

Doc Stefan